ive been going out w/my boyfrined for 1 week..he told me he stills likes my cuzin..i really like him..but he never calls me,we go to school were in high school and he never is w/me ..am the one that always have to go up to him...he he dosent want to be w/me why cant he tell me? i know he dosent want to hurt me but he needs to tell me..ive asked him if he wanted to break-up w/me he "just SMILED AND LOOKED DOWN AND SAID NO!" W/ A SMILE ON HIS FACE"
i really dont want to break-up w/him cuz i really love him
i need help
2007-03-19 05:36:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive liked him sice last year..so now that i go out with him its like om6
i hope yall understand me
2007-03-19 06:32:14 · update #1
Run, don't walk, away from this guy. This will not end well. Trust me you are better off with out him. You are selling yourself way too short if you are willing to settle for a guy that is into your cousin. You probably don't love him since you have only been together for a week. Go out and buy the book, "He's Just Not That Into You" and read it. It will make you feel so much better. Realize that you should be with someone who is dying to be with you too.
2007-03-19 05:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Smarty06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you the sad truth. Guys don't ever want to be the bad guy, so sometimes they, and girls do this too, will beat around the bush, avoid the subject and the girl until she breaks up with him. It's pretty obvious that he's made his choice. Your cousin may or may not want to be with im, but if you know for a fact that he's looking elsewhere after only a week, I'd say this relationship doesn't have much hope. I suggest you cut your losses and let the wuss go before he really breaks your heart. Don't' bother yelling or crying, just tell him you've decided to move on. It'll be hard, but not as hard as it would be months later. Good luck Hon, whatever you do.
2007-03-19 05:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be just using you to make your cousin jealous..relationships are a 2 way street...leave him and see how he feels about that...if he tries to get you back then he really does like you...if he is like"oh well" then at least you will know.. Stop waiting your time with that guy if he isn't putting in any effort on his part
2007-03-19 05:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take charge of YOUR life and make your OWN decisions.
That is the best thing I can do. When r u going to stop taking your cousin's castaways?
You are not being treated like a girlfriend... AND it is one week out of your life. He may feel like he is in a situation that he doesn't want to be in.
Cut the link. Be kind.... we all make mistakes. It is your decision to make... do u want his kind of relationship?
- Cristal
Take a tip from the backstreet boys and say "bye bye bye"
-Cristine
2007-03-19 05:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by silent sisters cristal/cristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes your cousin and it's obvious. That's the first and last straw. It's in the family when it shouldn't be. Leave him alone. It's already a week and your head over heels for him. Your in high school. You will have plenty of time and boys. Move on sweety. Move on.
2007-03-19 05:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Karma_Raynebowma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're wasting your heart, affections and time with a guy who likes his slice of cake (YOU) and eating (enjoying both slices with more, I'm sure) another slice too (on the side).
You'll kiss a lot of frogs before you'll find your prince; this one's a frog, toss him back in the pond. Be prepared to watch him beg disgustingly for your heart--but be assurred, he's playing with your heart and your cousin's as well.
2007-03-19 05:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are dating, why dosent he awknowledge you in school? I think you should find someone who appreciates you and treats you like an angel. You should not have to make an effort everyday to talk to your boyfriend. And if he is still hung up on someone else, chances are he will cheat. Just from personal experiences
2007-03-19 05:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by sybnlvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes already told u who he likes one week after going out why wait til 3 months later to find out what he was already telling move on save ur mind some sleeplees nights
2007-03-19 05:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breakup with him, you're making yourself way TOO easy and he probably doesn't rspect that. You love him after only one week, wake up sweety and I'm not trying to be mean, but I've been there too! Don't waste your time on him, life's too short!!
2007-03-19 05:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him. Here's a list of reasons why:
Your too young to know what love is.
Your still in high school
You've only dated him for a week
He likes your cousin
Concentrate more on making good grades and less on the immature high school boys.
2007-03-19 05:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by isisrocca82 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋