met this guy a few weeks ago and we have been out a few times and he said he just wants to be friends. we have texted each other every day. he knows i like him more then that and have stayed over his twice. shared a bed with him and kissed ( didn't have sex). he told me stuff thats he has not told anyone else. he is very shy and not been with a girl before. do you think he likes me just as a friend or more?
2007-03-19 05:28:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have learned that when a Man likes you He lets you know. We as women have a tendency of reading into things that are not there. If he said he wants t obe friends, he wants to be friends. If you are looking for more from him, move on. if he really wants you he'll let you know.
2007-03-19 05:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by cl19ar08ity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes to be physical with you. But why are you letting this guy take advantage of you? That is exactly what he is doing and you are letting him. He said "just friends" which means he's not interedted in a relationship with you. Texting is not an acceptable form of communication from a guy who respects you and cares for you. If he was really into you he'd call you so he could hear your voice. The words "just friends" would have never came out his mouth. Do not continue to let him use you. No guy is too shy to go fter what they want, he made it clear he doesn't want you. His loss!
2007-03-19 05:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience - move on - I was in the exact same situation a few years back and, like you, was getting a lot of mixed messages. I only ended up getting hurt from trying to figure out why he was acting the way he did. I found courage and told him I found the whole situation too weird (as he couldn't make his mind up as to what he wanted). You sound like quite a confident person and need to be with like-minded guys.
2007-03-19 05:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by flipflop_76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only one who can answer that is him, maybe u should slow things down if u know he's just not feeling it, if u offer he could refuse and that would tell u if he's ready to be with u, if he agrees he still wants to be with u but he's probably just shy, and if he says he doesn't want to be with u (in nicer terms of course) then u should tell him u should understand but seeing as u guys shared a bed and he's letting go a bit more by sharing things with u i'd say there is something there.
2007-03-19 05:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by nineties_rule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have txt each other, and slept but not had sex together, if that's not a hint that he just wants friendship for now and take things slow then i dont know what is.
Give him time and dont rush him, you will know soon enough if he is ready for the next level. If not then leave it at that and accept it.
2007-03-19 05:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to him directly? Ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel. It sounds a lot like he does like you, however he is probably just a little nervous and not sure what to do if he has not had much experiance. Talk, take things slow and see what develops.
I hope things work out fine for you.
2007-03-19 05:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club
2007-03-19 05:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says your just friends then maybe he just wants to lose his virginity to you and nothing else. if he is saying lots of strong stuff about you after a few weeks then maybe he is just saying it to get you into bed
i really hope this isnt true but guys a twats like that sometimes
so you just have to be careful you dont get hurt
2007-03-19 05:37:44 · answer #8 · answered by sparkles_x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him! Its not very fair kissing you etc if your not going out is it? and if he says jst as a friend i would stop the kissing & sharing a bed.
Good luck
2007-03-19 05:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by kaykay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you `n` probally doesn`t know how to make the next step without frightening you off so, take the lead if you want it to continue.Good luck.
2007-03-19 05:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋