try a new girl and not tell my g/f because i don't wanna break up with her or do i just not do anything and continue to be good. I wanna be with my g/f very much b/c i love her but she has cheated on me 4 times and i was wondering if anyone had any advice. People always said it was nice to try new things.
2007-03-19 05:28:27 · 24 answers · asked by William P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 wrongs does NOT make a right. Just because she cheated on you, doesn't give you the right to go out and cheat on her. Perhaps, you should have broken up with her after the second or subsequent times, that she cheated on you. The fact that she cheated on you is NOT an excuse for you to stoop to the same level...and perhaps she cheated on you 4 times because you let her get away with it 4 times.
If you feel the need to "try a new girl" as you put it, then you should break up with your girlfriend and get it out of your system. Everyone who is in a relationship always admires other people from the opposite sex, but mature people in committed relationships don't actually at on that.
Sounds like your relationship is doomed anyway...so why not get out while the getting is good and cut your losses? Then you can testdrive all the women you want...
2007-03-19 05:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Mrs SSG B♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have left the first time she cheated on you, but FOUR TIMES? Are you a masochist? She can't be THAT hot. So, do you love her or are you infatuated with her?
In either case, leave her. I'm sure you do find other girls attractive, so act on it.
So why do you NOT want to break up with her? With guys there are usually two reasons: 1) The hotness factor and 2) The sex factor. I dated an incredibly hot girl back 20 odd years ago and put up with her rumored (one was true) infidelities because she was SMOKIN' hot. I learned. You should too.
2007-03-19 13:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have interest in someone else then you should end your relationship with your girlfriend. If she has cheated 4 times then that will not be the only 4 times she cheats on you. Just break up, get over her, and then find someone new. You should never cheat as revenge. Be better than your girlfriend!
2007-03-19 12:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by unknown2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people that are truly in love do not cheat. maybe you should just start 'dating' instead of being in a relationship with someone that has cheated on you 4 different times, that you know of. If you are thinking about dating other people and wanting to try someone else out, then maybe you should think about why you are settling for what you have right now, because if you were truly happy and in love your current girlfriend, she would be your 1st and only choice.
2007-03-19 12:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by SanelyCrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this question is a joke of some sort. If she has cheated on you four times and you're still with her that pretty much puts you at the bottom of the smarts pool and I bet you have "Please Wipe Your Feet" stamped across your chest.
Cheating on her makes you no better then her, scum at best is what you would be. If you want something new then dump her a$$ and go find something new, if you love her then get over it and stay with her and only her.
2007-03-19 12:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheated 4 times. DUDE BAIL!! Find a girl who you can respect, and one that respects you. Guys will always find other women attractive. It nature. It's wether you act on that that proves wether you are real man or not. Real men stick with thier women!! (given that their women haven't cheated...of course) Dont get me wrong. Look but don't touch. Go find yourself a good woman and live long and prosper.
2007-03-19 12:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Scott U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are attracted to other girls then you are not in love with your girlfriend. and how could you be if she has cheated on you? But what kind of cheating has she done? Think about if you really do love her and if she really does love you.
2007-03-19 12:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by s..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should think back to how it felt when u were cheated on by her. wut would u of preferred her to do. it hink u should talk to her. let her know that now ur understandin y she cheated on u, cuz ur curious bout other girls. maybe then the two of u need to take a little break and explore other options. you cant expect to spend forever witht he first person u fall in love with. if you did, u wowuld always wonder wut its like to be with someone else. its human nature. thats y we havbe so much infedelity in realationships these days. jus let her know u thinkin other girls r hot has nothing to do with ur love for her. she will probably understand since she obviously felt the same way when she cheated on u.goodluck
2007-03-19 12:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by meshelle2kz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she cheated doesn't mean you have to. sounds like there's lack of trust in your relationship. if you "love" her, be with her and only her. if you have strong desires to be with other women, don't string her along. tell her you're not 100% happy with where you guys are and you're confused right now. if it's really love, you'll find your way back. if not, you'll do the right thing and call it quits before someone really gets hurt.
2007-03-19 12:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by alice_aires 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt be with her anymore, cheated four times, she doesnt care about your feelings. that is why you are thinking of other women, the passion and want for your girlfriend is fading away. its time to move on before she cheat for the sixth time, because she is cheating now which makes is five.
2007-03-19 12:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by soto_a81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋