when i'm mad at my boyfriend, he ignores me, and he doesn't talk to me, and i pretends i'm not there, and doesn't look at me or go near me, why does he do this? isn't he supose to care if i'm mad at him?
2007-03-19 05:20:08 · 9 answers · asked by US 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's mad at you too.
But yeah. I totally agree with you. He's supposed to care and be there for you and try to make things better.
I don't know man. Guys are complicated.
2007-03-19 05:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-15 03:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A really good answer to this would be psycology. Think about it. He ignores you and what does it do to you? It drives you freaking nuts. You want to know why he is ignoring you instead of arguing back at you. Eventually he wins the arguement because you give in to this. By him ignoring you it makes you feel that if you dont cut the **** he might let you go so you come back to him and apologize or just forget things happen. He may be doing this and not even really knowing he is. Or he may know what buttons to push and gets you every time. ;)
2007-03-19 05:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by lethalx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there could be 23432 reasons why.
1.\ are you yelling at him?
2. are you putting him down?
3. are you using "you make me bad because..." or "i hate you when.." if you are- try nuetral statements- meaning you aren't attacking him - try saying instead, "it really bothers me when..." "it makes me feel like I >>>>> when you >>>>>>"
4. he is ignorning you because he is tuning you out. He's probably sick of hearing you complain...
Instead of letting things build up so you get angry at him- instead sit down with him and TALK ABOUT THINGS and resolve them before you get a chance to let them build up and get angry. If you need too- sit down every night and decide that at that time you'll each "discuss" issues you're having.. like, "today you went to the gym with your friends and i thought we had plans to go to the mall and it really frustrated me and me feel hurt and left out that you forgot"... etc etc... otherwise try sitting down and doing this once a week - if you dont need to everyday.
2007-03-19 05:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mine does the same thing to me and i asked him about it one day and the answer was awesome.
he said that he doesn't like it when i'm mad at him and he doesn't want it to stay in his memory, he'd rather just ignore me and keep from both of us blowing up and remembering a bad bad time later in life... he said that he's not doing it to be mean but he doesn't like confrontation with me... he'd kick any guys as.s but doesn't want to fight with me because all is fair in love and war and when love is fighting war begins.
2007-03-19 05:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Back*To*Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he is trying to take the heat off of himself. my special man does the same thing and it pisses me off too! they know it bothers us when they are mad so they conveniently get mad at the same time
2007-03-19 05:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he doesn't like the drama. He prefers to stay out of it rather than put up with your wrath.
2007-03-19 05:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes giving you room to cool off is all! My bf does the same thing? and Yes he cares
2007-03-19 05:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He may be thinking that you are just being unreasonable, again.
2007-03-19 05:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋