my friend and his girlfriend were going to the movies so i asked this girl i really liked to go, but she said she had plans. the second time i asked her to a dance and she said "she didn't like me like that," i have never felt this way about a girl before. i want to know if i should give up or keep trying.
2007-03-19 05:18:02 · 24 answers · asked by orangevette3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's time to move on. She said she's not interested and I think the more you keep trying, the more hurt you'll be.
2007-03-19 05:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after the second time she said she "didn't like you like that," then don't ask her out a third time. She's already made up her mind.
I used to use the "three strikes" rule if the answer was either vague, or at least encouraging at first (if she says "no" under three different circumstances then move on).
2007-03-19 06:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she doesn't like you like that. Continuing to ask her out will only make her like you even less as a friend because you're being so freakin' annoying. Give up, be her friend. Maybe she'll see you in a different light if you back off an be cool about it.
2007-03-19 05:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Vexer D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying, if she told you she didn`t like you that way, she was honest with you and you should respect that. I had to do it to a guy last week and I felt bad about it because I know he is madly in love with me, but I just cannot make myself love him that way so I had to tell him that.
You can`t change her feelings, you can stay near, but don`t insist that you two go out, if u want give her some time and see what happens, but don`t insist.
Good luck.
2007-03-19 05:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lanalee W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might agree with everyone's comments, but have you tried being blunt about it? such as... I've asked you out twice. Is going out with me something you might be interested in, or not? Or if she blows you off the next time, ask should I pursue this?
I'm sitting here thinking that there is a guy that is 14 years younger than me that keeps calling me for a date and I keep blowing him off because I thought I made it clear that I wasn't interested. I'm going to call him today and tell him... thanks, but no thanks...
2007-03-19 05:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to change your tact. She doesnt like you like that means she wants to just be friends and cant picture you in any other way. Prove her wrong by spending time with her. Dont stalk her! Some girls like to play hard to get but they will flirt with you, if she doesnt even flirt with you pick another girl I know it can be tough.
2007-03-19 05:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she is fascinated she would be in a position to save the preparations you have the two made, do no longer save on asking you dont desire to look be pushing the subject my propose is this is she doesnt wanna bypass out with then you definitely so be it, placed your efforts in to somebody that wont make it easier to down and could reciprocate the sentiments and the enthursiam. sturdy success
2016-10-19 02:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by balikos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the hardest lessons to learn in life is that not everyone you like is going to like you back. She said she doesn't like you "like that", so I'd say you should give up and look for someone else.
2007-03-19 05:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i personally think u should stop. but you never know what can happen. if u want something. u gotta go for it right. so i think u could keep trying. maybe she'll go out with you.
2007-03-19 05:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is giving you the brush off twice, obviously she isn't interested.
It's best to go for a girl who might return you interest....
2007-03-19 05:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by anhjoel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋