this boy that i use to go with he wants me back but he cheats on me with my cousin what should i do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 05:15:26 · 22 answers · asked by alexaundria h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER. HE WILL ONLY HURT YOU AGAIN.... AND WHAT THE HELL HE CHEATED ON YOU WITH YOUR COUSIN... TH ATS A HELL NO!!!!!
2007-03-19 05:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by was_up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off however he gets in touch with you. If he calls, don't pick up. If he visits, let him knock and don't answer. If he comes to a public place where you are, avoid him and definetly avoid eye contact. Tell him "no, I can do so much better." Believe yourself and he will start to believe you, too. He will persist, but YOU persist more. Stay strong. Tell him he is so very replaceable. Get to replacing or just stay single. You need to heal from a cheat before getting involved to tell the truth. All boys are not whores and cheats. There are some gentlemen out there.
2007-03-19 05:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me many moons ago when I was about 15 or so. He didn't cheat on me but was just an *** and then decides he wants me back. I very politely told him over the phone to stop calling me and that he blew it. He finally got the hint.
2007-03-19 05:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeat after me.... NO!
If he cheated on you, dont go back. Letting a guy cheat on you and staying with him is almost like giving him permission to keep cheating on you whenever he feels like it. He knows you forgave him once, he will think you will forgive him again and again and again... Dont do that to yourself. Good luck
2007-03-19 05:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell His straight out no. Tell him you deserve better than a cheat
2007-03-19 05:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you can't be with him anymore cause you don't want to be hurt from him again. If he tells you he's changed, it's probably a bunch of bull. Definately just tell him no, and let him know how you feel about it.
2007-03-19 05:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by sin_lover85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to leave you along you don't like him any more and walk away and if he don't stop tell him he had you once but he cheated on you and you got hurt and you dont want to get hurt any more
2007-03-19 05:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by baby-shawna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "no thanks, once a cheater always a cheater". Don't believe anything he says....cheaters can't change (I know from experience) Avoid anything that has to do with him...ie. phone calls, interacting etc. End all ties and find yourself a new boyfriend. He'll get the hint then.
2007-03-19 05:21:33 · answer #8 · answered by hellomyfriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no no noooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!! Please! You can do much better than that. There are plenty of guys out there who won't cheat on you and will be far nicer. And he cheated on you with a member of your family? That's really low of him....just say no!!
2007-03-19 05:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by HC123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhmmm...just tell him NO! It doesn't have to be hard at all. WHen he contacts you again, explain to him that you are no longer interested in him and that he should move on. Break all ties with him and good luck.
2007-03-19 05:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋