me and this guy (im 15 hes 16) hav been seeing eachother for almost a month and lats night was the first time we kissed (hes kinda shy bout doin stuff in public n last night was the first time we were alone). All these people have been askin if we are going out/if hes my bf and i dont know what to to say we both agreed to take things very slow and i like that. but we both really like eachother and are commited. so what do i tell people i dont want to say to much and i asked the guy and he said he didnt care
2007-03-19 05:01:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am telling you right now, just be proud.
if you aren't proud, you don't belong with him.
if you can't say you are with him to anyone than you aren't happy with him.
so there isn't really anything to say.
if he is great, tell them stories. if they ask if you are with them, tell them the truth.
if he didn't care, he either didn't know, wanted you to decide, or actually didn't care. you'll figure it out.
2007-03-19 05:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by John Becker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, and he said you could tell people, then do. Some people might be asking because they are waiting to make their move on him!
P.S. I'm not saying it always works, but I met my husband when we were barely 18. Now we are 31, and are the most happily married couple I know. Keep taking it slow, and good luck.
2007-03-19 12:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to mind their own business. If your friends or family ask, just say you don't know right now and you guys are just getting to know each other and that you'll see what happens and that you don't believe in premature labelling or categorizing nor do you need to put a title on your correspondance with another person.
2007-03-19 12:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Main 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it isn't really anyone's business but the two of you, but you could just tell them right now your just taking things slow and seeing where they go. It's an honest answer.
2007-03-19 12:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell people you dont like to discuss that such a thing and isnt there enough PDA in the world without worrying about yours?? Keep it private, its nobaody elses biz,nothing wrong with taking it slow!!
2007-03-19 12:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by bowsgirl1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could just say Yes we are going out and trying to get to know one another better. Let's not talk about commitment at this age. Lotsa factors out there that will affect how committed you are to one another. It's just the beginning. and one thing for sure..its nice to love and be loved. but try not to get burned.
2007-03-19 12:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by dovett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he waited a month to kiss you means he likes you. He sounds really shy. Next time someone asks if he is you're boyfriend just say you're dating then theres no label.
2007-03-19 12:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by ali-d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that "yes were going out" i'm 15 too so i know how this goes. but you know what...umm just dont care what other people say about you guys. or just if they ask you. you dont even have to answer them if u dont wanna say anything. i mean.. all that matters is what u think and what u think about yourself! =] good luck!!
2007-03-19 12:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Perfectly Unperfect Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you're taking it slow and getting to know each other.
2007-03-19 12:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them your together. That's should be enough. It's not too much info as to scare him off but it settles there curiosity.
2007-03-19 12:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Treyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋