I known this guy since i was 11, we were together for a month when we were about 14. I havent seen him since i was 18, but now im 25 and i saw him 2 weeks ago at the bar. we been hanging out since but i think its just a rebound for him. maybe for me to since i finally trying to get away from the father of my kids. but should i tell him i like him before i get hurt and find out it was just a rebound. what do i do, i need some advice.
2007-03-19 04:48:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok... I would have to say I would just leave him alone for a bit. If he and his wife just split up, it doesn't mean he's really available. Maybe they are just seperated for a little bit. He is still going to need time though to get over her whether they are seperated or divorced. Another thing is to that you two share a past and things get rekindled. Hormones raging too...lol So, before you get all hot and heavy for him, think about it and think if it's worth getting your heart broken and all the risk factors. Just way the pros and cons of the situation. I'm sure you'll find out what's best. Hope things work out for you and your kids. :)
2007-03-19 04:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by felichia c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spouse would not have acquaintances, or no longer many i'm guessing so this is specific to her, an she gets to sense youthful an extraordinary lower back. The pal is single an. often they desire there acquaintances single to ,so be careful , she would be in a position to prob be attempting much greater stable an its like they consistently say never tell your single acquaintances what's up on your marriage reason they're going to thrive on it. prepare her you adore her an don't be to " bitchy" yet try for a evening of romance an on my own time so which you would be able to. Then a million you will see the way you stack up against the comp. 2 attempt to speak together with her , after " in mattress" how u miss her an desire greater time. this is new an it may take over if no longer careful. merely be candy an do no longer talk undesirable approximately pal it's going to make her nearer to her. merely undergo in strategies it might desire to be the hooking up with others to. attempt to work out the place your courting is first till now flying of the handle, then you certainly can step lower back an evaluate,.... how she dressing , is she attempting very puzzling , what excuses if any is she utilising, does she use her telephone greater in many circumstances, merely bear in mind there might desire to be yet another or others. additionally if suspect, be advantageous b4 this one placed ur quantity as against pal an you will get each and every text cloth. hence solutions. this is risky although if caught. sturdy success.
2016-10-19 02:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't rush into anything. keep hanging out with him and see how things develop. if your feelings for him get stronger then you should tell him something. he has just split from his wife, and you just may be the girl that gets him back into the game. you dont want to be that. he may just be looking to have some fun and not get into another commitment so fast with anybody else. if and when you do decided to tell him, make sure you let him know that if he isnt ready to date that you would understand, and that you are not trying to be a rebound girl for him either. it should all work out. maybe he will tell you that he likes you. just give it some time.
2007-03-19 04:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by nicky3162002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does anyone else hear that sqwaking? It's the sound of a love vulture circling and now moving in to pick on the fresh, relational kill.
Ironically, you said that he split from his wife 2 weeks ago, and then you said that you saw him at the bar 2 weeks ago. . .hmmm are these 2 events related? Which came first the split from the wife or you helping to split them?
Slow down girl. Take care of your heart and current wounds before adding on to your relational struggles.
2007-03-19 05:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Simile35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be in a hurry to get in a relationship with him since he just split up from his wife. 2 weeks is not a very long time. I probably still has feelings for his wife. He sould possibly end up back with her. You should tread the water very carefully or you will end up with a broken heart. He needs much more time to get over his wife.
2007-03-19 04:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by unknown2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only seperated and could reconcile with his wife while you've already taken the risk and expressed your affection for him. I recommend you give him time to sort out what direction his marriage is going before you jump too quickly. You don't need to be a pawn in that situation. If he does eventually obtain a divorce and expresses interest in seeing you, there might be potential. Patience my friend. Good Luck
2007-03-19 04:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now your both really lonely and hurt. Don't jump into anything until you know you both got your heads on straight. Remember you have kids and kids get attached to people very easily. So if you start bringing this guy around make sure its a permanent relationship and not just a sex thing.
2007-03-19 04:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Annabelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to resolve your own problems first. Wait a year before seeing him. This is rebound. He may still get back with her. And anyway your kids have enough drama without adding this.
2007-03-19 04:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Split and divorce are 2 separate things. I would wait a bit before getting too involved.
2007-03-19 04:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow, he been married and he may end up back with his wife,, so if you put out be prepared for alittle heart ache if this happens, also he is looking for acceptance after his split so he will be looking to split the sheets to, as a " I am okay " kind of guy thing,
either way, I would go slow,
2007-03-19 04:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋