i keep a diary since i was 16 (now i am 19) and i remeber placing a document in it.so today my sister (30) talked to me about that document and i asked her where did she find it.she said "in your stuff".I said "it was IN my DIARY".and she replied that she opened my diary, bumped into my document but she didn't read my diary!i know this isn't true!she obviously read it!
i really don't know what to do!now she knows a bunch of stuff i didn't want her to.....
ps.she told me that i cant be mad at her cause she told me the truth...!
2007-03-19 04:48:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ok, what you do is put in there some lies. Like, your parents are finally buying you a car, and you hope your sister doesn't find out. Or, put in there that her boyfriend or husband was caught with another woman, and you arne't sure if you should tell her. Basically, cause her embarassment, and then when she asks how could you, you can reply that if she wasn't snooping, you would have to do that.
Either that, or get another diary, and make that one more creative and hide your real one.
2007-03-19 05:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by George P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you think she read it for sure, then you need to talk to her! Explain her that's it's your thoughts, feelings, fears in there, and you'll appreciate if she is not going to tell anyone about it, and also tell her it's was not very nice going through your stuff, she needs to respect you!
And for the future, keep your diary away from others!!! Don't leave it in not a safe place.
Don't get mad on her now, what's done is done, but you're going to be sisters forever.
good luck
2007-03-19 11:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by yuliyasa2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes you can be mad at her!
Keep it locked with a key lock. You obviously can not trust your family. Go buy a lock with the hardware, install it somewhere, when I was a kid I installed it on my bedroom door. This way know one could get into my room for I had similar things happen.
Talk to your parents first though, if nothing is done get the lock...Trust is a big issue and if you can not even trust your own family.....
2007-03-19 11:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have the right to be mad, she did something that was personal to you. Besides, what is a 30 year old going through your diary. How childish is that?
2007-03-19 11:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can so totally be mad at her. But if there are stuff in the diary like negative thoughts it is good she read it then. Coz this sort of happened 2 me but it was my mum who found it. She confronted me and it was all good after that.
2007-03-19 12:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by juliavril7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the most bull sh*t excuse iv ever heard. thats like hey i killed your dog oh but you cant be mad cause i told u the truth, hey i banged ur boyfriend oh but u cant be mad cause i told you the truth, what the hell does the truth have to do with anything, it doesnt make it ok- oh and dont listen to these idiots who say its your fault cause u didnt hide it better, thats like oh i know i robbed your store but you should have used bullet proof glass cause that regular glass just didnt keep me out so its your fault you should have made your store a fortruss.
2007-03-19 11:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amanda, you have every right to be pissed off. It's plainly obvious that she was snooping and invaded your private space. My suggestion is to tell her she had no right to snoop on your peronal life and please don't do it again. Ask her how she would fee if you snooped on her and discovered stuff that was personal to you. But whatever you do, don't let this form a wedge between you and her, it's not worth that.
2007-03-19 11:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she did tell you the truth you gotta give her that...and i dont blame you if someone had read my diary id be mad too( not that i have one) hide it in a better spot next time
2007-03-19 11:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something. My sister died a year ago. I'd give anything to have her read anything I have.
You'll realize as you get older that even though you have a right to be upset, she is still your sister and you love her just as she loves you.
2007-03-19 11:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
takke a pickshure of her in the shower and see if she appresheates privacy then.
if she gets hostul, post the pickshure on the inturnet. You will probubly never have to worrie about her again
2007-03-19 12:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by Timothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋