I know it's hard for you guys to really open up and talk to us girls about how you feel so my question is why is it so hard and is there something us girls can do to make it easier on you to open up?
2007-03-19 04:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the fact is are brains are wired different that is proven. But the truth is a man will open up and tell you everything under one condition. He loves you. If a man really loves you then he will tell you things that he will not anyone else. No matter how bad or gross or just plain weird. So it sounds like you just have to find love not lust. No one opens up for lust.
2007-03-19 04:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by mt08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha.
Hard to open up and talk to girls? Men talk to girls more then they do to their friends.
What you are seeing is as 'good' as it gets. Men are just generally not that interested in sitting around talking about their feelings.
2007-03-19 11:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that it's hard, we just don't have the need to discuss our feelings the way women do. so we don't understand the importance women place on it.
If you need your guy to discuss his feelings, ask him questions. Be prepared to hear one or two word answers. It's not that were being difficult. That's what we feel.
2007-03-19 11:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be more of a buddy than a girl friend ~ go dirt biking, drinking, video games and just hanging out with guys you can get to know them
2007-03-19 11:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
donut be judgemental
makke him know you will not tell your frends
be sweet and open to him
and if nothing else works, give him sweat loving. nothing helps a guy opun up likke having his pippes clened
2007-03-19 11:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Timothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell us some of your problems first and see if we have anything to say that has to do with your problems maybe? im open but my friends arent hehe
2007-03-19 11:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by xXKoRn.StArXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because society teaches us to be the strong silent types.
2007-03-19 11:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we just dont care to get into conflict or discussions... a bag of cocaine will REALLY open him up to saying ALOT of stuff tho.
2007-03-19 11:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find it very easy to open up to my lady --- i want her to know all about me what i think and how i feel
2007-03-19 11:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRLS BLUFF TOO MUCH. WE ARE AFRAID IF WE APPROACH THEM AND THE TURN US DOWN IT BECOMES EMBARRASSING TO US . THAT IS WHY WE DONT USUALLY OPEN UP.
2007-03-19 11:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋