I was with this girl for seven years and thru our life we had some issues but we were stil there. I amde a lot of mistakes that pushed her away may be, but she decided to leave me and doesnt want to have any contact with me, She also claims that she doesnt love any more but it was 7 years that we were 2gethere. I know she has a little of anger because of some wrong decisions i took But do you really think that she doesnt love after 7 years. Can she really mean to tell me that all i am to her is a like a brother? I can not stop loving her, i think and dream of her everyday, how can i tell my heart to stop thinking about her? I know there is something there i am trying to find a way to earn her love back for me but how can i do it, i mean a lot of friends tell me only time will decided, but she is everything for me. does she really doesnt love any more and let 7 years just go like nothing? or should i give a little try until all my hopes are gone..i love this woman and i would do anythin
2007-03-19 04:33:28 · 10 answers · asked by leomebaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That was beautiful! You really lover her! Awwwwwww....
Well she is LYING to you she is fighting her feelings for you. YES she still loves you but she is NOT going to admit that to you. She is hurting and yes she is angry. Feelings do not go away just like that ecspecially since you two have been togehter for seven years. She thinks that if she just cuts off all contact with you that she will forget about you and move on. You have to send her some flowers and then tell her to meet you somewhere special. Tell her all your feelings about her and how you will try to be a better man. Everyone makes mistakes in relationships. Ask her to give you another chance. You REALLY have to get across her that you want her in your life. I say NEVER give up on true love. Go for it before its too late!
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2007-03-19 04:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by i♥Y!answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww, omg im so sorry
i know how you feel because im in the same situation with my bf only we havent been together for 7 years and he hasnt told me he doesnt love me
its hard when people tell you time will tell and you should be patient and i hate that to death because they piss me off and i become angry and i stop talking to those friends
well your best option is to turn your life around and get back to how you were before she left you (this is what i am doing) and then show her that you've changed (did this, worked very well) after 7 years, im sure she loves you and is just confused and upset about everything. so try and show her that things will be like before and see what she says
2007-03-19 11:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seven years is a long time but alot can change in that time if you really do love her then tell her and dont pressure her and tell her to take some time to think about what you just said to her and tell her to let you know if she feels the same way and if she doesn't then you should leave her alone and give her space and take from this and learn to make better choices when dating. good luck
2007-03-19 11:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Nance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years is a long time I feel for you. But you have to move on with your life. Learn something new run a marathon, focus on yourself ;you have to detach. It is a long journey. Do not keep trying it will push her far away. later on your going to want her to be far away, trust me on this one. Take care and good luck!
2007-03-19 11:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by clevion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes what seems to be the end is actually a new beginning. Take this opportunity to meet new people and when you find someone. You'll realize that maybe what you felt was not love at all.
2007-03-19 11:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by JC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt love you anymore, then shes not going to come back to you no matter how hard you try.
some things are just not meant to be.
there might be a girl out there that is perfect for you, but you're missing out on true love!
let this girl go. she's obviously moved on.
I'm sorry!
2007-03-19 11:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by John Redcorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell, maybe some roses and a card telling her how you feel about her (put all that you just mentioned in there). Some women actually go for that.
2007-03-19 11:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by rhinestone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i understand your pain (similar experience).... all i can say is best of luck.... because i know what anybody says is not gonna help u man... u gotta get out there n face the sh*t urself....... we dont know ur girl... we dont know whats in her heart... its you who has been with her for 7 years... only u will know her.....
hold ur life...... n reduce all that hope n expectations.... we guys kill ourselves just hoping!!!!
2007-03-19 11:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by _...._ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really love her continue to hit on her, but ask urself if she would fit in as a sis or a gf bettter?
2007-03-19 11:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sleepless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on.
2007-03-19 11:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋