This guy that is 7 years older than me took me out about 3-4 times one summer and we just basically did something sexual - no dinners or anything. I had known of him for 4yrs prior as a distant family friend. Summer ended and he went back to college about 1hr. - he told me in the car when he dropped he off one night that he would be back. I never had any numbers for him. I never heard from him until the next Spring. I would just get a message that he called and once again no number. I did not know how to find him so I dated someone else and tried to forget him. He tells me now that he always loved me and I was gone and he had to go on with his life. He has had a live-in for 17 years and wants to have sex with me again. I did not know that he worked out of town in the summer yrs ago and he says he did not know he had to tell me.
If I was his girl would he have been so detatched with me? I am I that special to him? He has given me numbers to reach him now including his home number.
2007-03-19 02:49:31 · 8 answers · asked by formy p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I have waited around for him the next summer? Should I have tried harder to find him since I did not have his number to return his calls? If he loved me and could not reach me by phone wouldn't he have physically shown up at my house? He says he tried and tried to reach me - this makes me cry when he says this. But I just don't understand why he did not just come for me if he felt that way. I loved him but by that next Spring I felt that I was just a booty call to him. Was I wrong? Is he trying to manipulate me? He is killing me - his words are so perfect.
2007-03-19 02:57:52 · update #1
If a man loves you he treats you kindly and with respect, and not as a booty call. He may say he loves you, but his actions prove that he doesnt........... have some self respect and kick him to the kerb.
2007-03-19 02:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
truthfully, I wasn't sexually involved in my lady buddy when I met her. She became on the butch side and that i had continuously been involved in female ladies. even with the undeniable fact that, after putting out for a on an analogous time as and attending to appreciate her, I fell in love with the guy she is and now she's captivating to me. i do no longer think of the preliminary appeal is fairly considerable ~ it won't get you very some distance. the interior splendor in a man or woman is what makes them appropriate, in my opinion.
2016-12-15 03:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not his girl just a play thing. Been there done that. So he gave you his number no big deal. How many other guys have given your their number? Are you their girl? Be blunt, and stop sleeping with him. He took you places where could do you. Not even dinner. Umm you know in your heart what's going on.
2007-03-19 02:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he owes you at least 4 really nice dinners and an apology for saying he would be back when he wasn't.
did you call him?
he gave you his home number?
that matters I think
2007-03-19 02:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having sex with a guy if he never wants to do anything non-sexual?
This doesn't sound like a relationship to me. At least, it doesn't sound like a healthy one.
2007-03-19 02:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are action on the side to this guy, nothing more. He's full of crap. Don't let him play you. Stay away!
2007-03-19 02:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's taking advantage of you. Yuck - this story makes me itchy. Get rid of him NOW!
2007-03-19 02:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by kelly-il 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you that stupid?
2007-03-19 02:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by 2u 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋