My Prostitute Mom sold my precious memories of my deceased boyfriend for drugs?

Question

All I had was a a case of cds(about 100)and dvds we used to watch 2gether and a rainbow steel pocket knife of his and she sold them for crack. I'm so upset and angry.She comes and takes a bath and goes back out (she a prostitute as well,I saw an imprint of some cds in her purse and I take a look and it's one of the ones my boyfriend gave me before his death, I know it's mine cuzit has my name and a note he wrote written on it. I took it out and ran and told my aunt she asked if she took my cds she lied and said lied and said no.I'm so hurt cuz when he was living she was jealous cuz he was a drug dealer (he was changin his life), and he had taken care of me and paid my way threw school more than she even has done in my entire life.It gets worst.As soon as I got the one cd back out i feel asleep and broke it!I dont know what's going on but I have the worst of luck and all I wanted to do was cherish his memories, and she stole them..and the one I did get,broke!Plz offer encouragement.

I can understand why you aren't beliveing me, cuz this is hard to understand hwo can someone's parent do this to their child. My mom has been on drugs for 15+ years. This is the worst thing she has ever don to me besides when she emptied the savings account her father (my granddaddy) set aside for us and stayed gone for about 3 weeks and bought drugs with it.I just can't see why she wants to hurt her kids this way!

This is encouraging me to move out on my own, I've saved up about 3,000 IN MY OWN SAVINGS ACCOUNT and I plan on leaving. But what about my little sister, I only make #7.50 an hour at both of my jobs and I have school, I can't take care of them as well.

Answer 1

Pray for your mom to find Jesus.
Do it.
He can and will take the crack away from her.
The cd's and dvd's....forget it.
Those are just things.
The memories are actually in your head and they can't be sold or stolen or anything but enjoyed by you, alone.
I'm serious about prayer...it works and iknow, I was on crack and I prayed and now, I would not take it if it was free.

Answer 2

I really don't know alot about your life so im going to do my best to give you some advice to help you. Do you have any family that maybe could help you and let you and your little sister live with them. Or if your old enough to move out and get away from that situation then maybe it is best for you to take your lil sis and move out and get your own place. And maybe talk to a lawyer or someone and ask if you could get custody of your lil sis so that she can be taken out of that situation and go move with you. Go on a make a better life for yourself and dont worry about what she does anymore beause you don't deserve to have to live like that. And cherish all the memories you have of you and your boyfriend that is something that she can never take away from you is your memories that the two of you had shared before he passed away. And i am very sorry for you loss and i hope this helps you in some way and i wish you the very best of luck with this

Answer 3

If you are old enough to move on your own, and remove yourself from the situation, maybe you shopuld consider this. But in reference to the cds, things come and go. Im sorry you lost your boyfriends memoriabilia, but you didnt lose your boyfriend. They are just things. The real issue is between you and the living. If you can, get out of the household and start life anew. Give your mother to God and hope she can turn it around. As long as your around negative influence, you will be negatively influenced. So what you see as "bad luck" i see it as principality.

Answer 4

Until she gets help there is nothing you can do except help yourself, she will have to live with all this one day. I know I am a recovering crack addict, I have nothing to do with my kids because of stupid choices I made and I have two grandchildern one I have never seen. So for those who do not belive this, belive it, it happens everyday. Help yourself and your sisters maybe that will be the eye opener she needs. Overcoming and recovering from addiction is not easy so if she ever does decided to turn her life around, give her that chance. You , your sisters and her will be in my thoughts and prayers..HUGS to you. [e-mail] if you need a friend.

Answer 5

Get the hell out of that house ASAP! Move in with your Aunt if possible, or a close friend, and unless your mom tells you the person/s that she sold your personal belongings to, then there's not much you can do, other than taking her to small claims court, but that would most likely be a costly waste of time.

Answer 6

Look first of all the thing with your mum being a
prostitute, can you not find a way to go and live
with an aunt or another member of your family so
that you can get the stability you need, as well as
the security...............................................................

Then as for the CD theft thing, go to your school
you do not say how old you are, try to find alternate
accomodation, but do not run away as that solves
nothing and you could end up becoming a Pro----
as well if you end up in the same situation as your
mum............................................................................
get a drug counseller to come to the house and
speak to your mum about her addiction, because
that might be what keeps her in a life of prostitution..................................................................

As for your cd's and your deceased boyfriend, you did say he was deceased, you need to be the
sensible one and realise that drug dealers are not
the type of men you should be going out with in the first place, and speak to someone who can
advise you as to why you are choosing the wrong
type of person, could the life your mum leads be
sending you in the wrong direction...........................

You need to go to a counseller and speak to them
about everything in your life, get some life skills
maybe get a parttime job if you are old enough........................................................................

Get help from your family to get your mum off the
drugs, cherish his memory but do not get involved
with someone on drugs or a dealer again, surely
you can still find someone nice as you sound young..........................................................................

Get an education, that is the best encouragement
and advice that I CAN give you...............................................................................

Answer 7

I'm sorry about your boyfriend and even more sorry about your mom. The things you and your boyfriend shared are just things. The important things are in your heart and thoughs can't be bought or stolen or forgotten. You mom isn't your mom anymore she in now an addict and theres nothing you can do but waite untill she's hit bottom and then offer to try and get her help.

Answer 8

Sounds like your Mom needs help asap. and you need to not let her come back to your home until she is clean from the drugs.I know it can be hard to do this but it's called tough love ,but if your under age and it's her house,I would find a family member to stay with,maybe your Aunt you talked about.I'll pray for you for things to get better in your life.

Answer 9

once your old enough to get out on your own, get your own place big enough for you and your sister, then call protective services and apply for custody of your sister, that way she'll be out of the druggies hands and into a sister hands who loves her and wants to protect her, you can also apply for federal help or child support from your mom,it will help a lot to take care of your sister,then you two can grow and heal together.ask someone at school for help or counselor or priest, dint let your mother know you have any money, keep it hidden safely, good luck and god bless

Answer 10

your family's priorities are all messed up. until that happens, you don't deserve encouragement. you are whinning about a situation you got yourself into (by dating a drug dealer), as far as your mother goes...how old are you? if you are old enough to leave, then leave..if you aren't, you need to tell a councelor at school. You can do something about the state of your life, to make it better, but YOU have to do it, no one is going to do it for you. Make steps on getting yourself together, then maybe we can offer encouragement.