alright. so my bf broke up with me about a month ago. lately he's been telling me how much he misses hanging out with me, he can't stop thinkign about me blah blah blah. so this past weekend he's texting me repeatedly, then finally asks if we can get a drink because he really needs to see me. i make the mistake of inviting him over and he comes over, tells me he's missed me so much, he misses me as a friend, misses me because i'm beautiful...tells me he knows he doesn't deserve to be there..so we sleep together of course...and stay up talking until all hours of the night. it was wonderful, it's not weird.....but now i just don't know what to do! i dont know what he wants, but i dont think he would just use me because he's definitely not like that. i dont know. thoughts? i should probably just stop.
2007-03-19 02:39:34 · 15 answers · asked by SarahS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL. that was this weekend and i haven't heard from him. so i guess i know what the answer is.
2007-03-20 00:31:43 · update #1
(Gonna be somewhat honest here) Are you absolutely certain he's not like that? In any case, sleeping with him was a stupid move, but I wont go there. There's nothing you can do but wait. If he just wanted to sleep with you, he got what he came for, and you got conned, so don't let it happen again, and move on with life, remembering the "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me" proverb. If he really cares about you and meant all that stuff, he'll contact you again, and to be sure its really you he wants to be around, don't jump into bed with him so soon this time, 'kay? Well, in any case, good luck,and be SENSIBLE this time 'round, eh?
2007-03-19 02:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your boyfriend break up with you before?....Kinda need to know that info to give advice. With the info given though, I would say, if you still want to give the guy a shot, then go for it. Maybe he has seen the errors of his ways. He probably broke it off with you before because "the grass is always greener...." but after playing the field a bit realizes he may have lost a winner. Let him crawl back. Just because you slept together and had the lonnnng conversation doesn't mean the break-up never happened. If you want him back in your life, make it clear to him, that you do not need him anymore now then you did when he left you. I would make him grovel a while. You should definately keep the upper hand in this relationship for a while. Are you alright if he leaves you twice?
2007-03-19 02:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by in2one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, he wants to get back with you. Better think about it though. You may have just got caught up in the moment, it may be you who used him. think about why you broke up in the first place. If the problems can be resolved and you really truly love each other , then try it again. If not, apologize for becomming weak, and giving him false hope. It happens.
2007-03-19 02:45:28 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the one that he knows. When he has a problem with other girls, he'll come back to you because you're familiar territory - he knows how to tug on your heart strings and get what he wants.
Don't let him sleep with you, or talk you into anything again. You broke up, stay broken up.
2007-03-19 02:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by MBE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really does miss you and wants to work out the relationship. You should sit down and talk to him, tell him how you feel about the situation and that you would like to try to make it work again.
2007-03-19 02:46:16 · answer #5 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in between girls. Meaning he doesn't have anybody right now to sleep with and he knows that you are an easy target . It's the in- between- familliar girl "f***. Don't do it again, he'll string you along for sex until he finds a girl he can hook up with then disappear on you.
2007-03-19 02:44:56 · answer #6 · answered by k1971 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
rigidity makes you wreck out more advantageous, believe me i'm having a similar difficulty because college is coming up! Wash your face with pimples face wash, it will help end countless the breakouts.
2016-11-26 22:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex. But that is the anser to 90% of the questions in this ection.
2007-03-19 02:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants you back because when he broke up with you he realized what a mistake he made give him another chance. that's what i think
2007-03-19 02:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Cj : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say that he is not the kind to "Use" you - when he just did???????????????
Whats the old saying?
Why buy the cow when you are getting the milk free?
Think about it!
Lo Siento!
2007-03-19 02:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋