get pregnant and then give the children up because they weren't ready? I have been emailing this girl who said she cheated on her boyfriend, she got pregnant and they are twins. She said she wanted to tell him because she loves him. How can you cheat on someone you "love" get pregnant and then tell him they are not his? Then to top that off, she plans on giving the babies up because "she ain't ready to have 2 babies"........................she already has a child almost 2 and is only 18...............what kind of cr*p is that????? should have kept the legs closed! Should have used a condom! What do you think..................?
2007-03-19 02:20:04 · 20 answers · asked by live, love, laugh often! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think stop emailing her ... she is dysfunctional and will corrupt your good judgement! She also needs to stop being so selfish - you can't bring children into the world and then dump them on someone else because you're 'not ready'. Try telling the guy she slept with that she wasn't 'ready' until he put a condom on!! In reality, she'll probably see her babies and want to keep them if she has any maternal instincts about her although twins are SUCH hard work (personal experience). Her boyfriend should run for the hills, and so should you!
2007-03-19 02:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All part of the human race. Sounds like she is near the back of the pack. In the shallow end of the gene pool. She is down and almost out. She will live on the public t*t for life. We all pay so she can be irresponsible. The new American way. Liberals strike again. If you want more of the same vote for Hillary or Obama.
2007-03-19 02:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it does sound bad. But seriously who are you to judge? She made a mistake sure it is not okay. However, at least she is woman enough to know that she can not take care of her children and chooses to give them a better life. Unlike some woman who keep them knowing they will be unfit parents for whatever the reason be financially, emotionally or being irresponsible. I think we can all just hope she learned from her mistake and prey for her and her children.
2007-03-19 02:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by love me despite it all 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not your problem, so why should you care? The girl made a mistake, everyone makes mistakes. At least she is making the right choice about it. And she's not "dumping them one somebody else", she is giving them a happy home with a family that will love them and take care of them like they should be taken care of. Don't judge somebody you don't even know, you may think you know everything about them, but you're just seeing one thing they have done.
2007-03-19 02:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
at that moment she said that maybe she was looking for some counselling not for some judgement!having twin when she will give birth to her child and when she will see them for the first time nobody knows if she will give up the babies.for her bf whom she cheated its true its not good but if she explain to him may he could understand that nobody's perfect and accept th twins as his own child.
2007-03-19 02:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by emma 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
-----when the law took the parents authority of punishing thier childern away from them then kids do what ever they want to at ages of even 10----they know they will not have to pay for the wrongs--mistakes--murders ---babies they make or anything else they do----yes it;s a shame----you can;t make a kid to want or have any responsibility any more---and most just don;t give a dam.---------------
2007-03-19 02:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by mike h 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are u sure u are not talking bout ya self but just putting it like this so we wont know ....... if it is u or her she should have used a condom but u canonly guide people not live their lives for them so live urs and let her live hers .......and yes it is very stupid and nasty but that just tell u age is really nothing but a number.....shes 18 and cant deciphere whether or not she should use a condom ......like i said its on her or u
2007-03-19 03:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Video Phone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's doing the right thing. She made a mistake (several, apaprently) but trying to raise those children would be a HUGE mistake for evryone envolved.
2007-03-19 02:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you 100%
2007-03-19 02:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think I love your attitude!!!
So right.
She is a loser, and the SAD part is the people who will pay for the problem of her immaturity and promiscuity are her children.
2007-03-19 02:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋