Hey everyone, there is this girl I really like and I met her about a month ago. She is my roomates girlfriends sister. We all 4 have been hanging out for a while and we all have fun together. At first I was really shy and didnt talk much to her at all, but as time progressed I started talking to her more. About a week ago she left on vacation for a month, she has been sending me text messages and I have been sending her text messages since she left to see how both of us were doing. But to get to the point I have fallen in love with her, she is everything I want in a girl. There is this other guy that has been messaging her on her myspace calling her babe and telling her they need to hang when she gets back. Now this scares me because im a shy guy and this guy isnt at all. And im afraid of him getting her instead of me even having a chance. I have no clue what I should do to get her over this other guy. Ive been thinking of telling her how I feel but wanted to do that in person.
2007-03-19 02:19:35 · 3 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just dont want t live in regret you know, I know im the kind of guys she is used to dating but she is everythign I want in a girl and I dont want to lose her to some other guy who just wants her for her looks and thats all. Also should note that a while ago she sent me a text saying she didnt think anything was going to happen with us, reason she said that is my friend told her not to lead me on, but that was 1 week after we met. We have talked a lot more since then, and she has started to text me a lot more. Any advice on how to get this girl is appreicated.
2007-03-19 02:21:50 · update #1
Also should note that she is a vary independent girl.
2007-03-19 02:22:35 · update #2
I want to express my feelings for her and tell her how I feel, but I think that would be better face to face and not over a text message. Just dont want to lose her to another guy just cause im different then whats she is used to.
2007-03-19 04:07:38 · update #3
Go have several beers alone and then you will have the courage to ask her out when she gets back for a date. That is when you will spill your beans. You will text message her from the bar of course. A bottle of beer will give you courage.
2007-03-19 02:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her everything that you just said, tell her that she is everything you want and tell her that you wanna go out w/ her but you dont know if she is in any other relationship. if your shy you can always text it to her. or text to her that you miss her and you cant wait for her to get back from vacation. and when she gets back...then tell her all that other stuff.
2007-03-19 09:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by moon_stars_fury 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, don't listen to these idiots telling you should have beer. It never works! Just tell her how you feel, if you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life.
2007-03-19 09:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by XoLipGlossoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋