I got with a guy while i was with my ex, we get on really well and we spent loads of time together. He told me that he was falling for me and i was falling for him too. last monday he told me that he couldnt see me anymore cos he doesnt have enough time as he work unsociable hours and could give me what i need. we didnt speak all week then on saturday he told me he still likes me. He asked me if he could walk me home that night but later said he couldnt as he would want to kiss me and this was unfair on me. He said he'd call me and we'd meet up. Should i meet him? i still really like him. does he want me..? thanks for any help that you can give me :)
2007-03-19 02:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by sarahfifield87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my best advice to you is stay away from this guy he seems like he doesnt kno what he wants or hes using you either way hes a jerk n u deserve someone who will spend time with you and put u first not everything else...if he really liked u so much hed make time for you...remember you want what u cant have, he might be coming bak to you bc he thinks hes losing you and just needs to kno that ur there if he wants you to be,, its hard to hear but sumtimes very true...try to move on honey its best for you
dont go meet him, dont even talk to him.l.go out and do you
2007-03-19 02:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds all a little confusing to me! You need to ask him what is going on. Does sound like her really likes you and seems that he does not want to let you down or disapoint you which is good. He is thinking of you if he is saying he cant give you time due to his job, and not walking you home as he didnt want to confuse you. Talk discuss your feelings for each other and go from there, if it is ment to be it will happen and the relationship will find away to bloom, even around his unsociable hours.
2007-03-19 09:24:00 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go he obviously really likes you perhaps hes worried that if he doesn't show you enough attention you might stray (dont mean to rude) and he will get hurt. He didnt have to tell you he wanted to kiss you he could have made any excuse up but he wants you to know he is still interested, hes just testing you, sounds like he needs lots of reassurance, get him to walk you home and pounce on him!!!
2007-03-19 09:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by bez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone's playing games. It was OK when you were with someone else and not readily available, but now you're single he doesn't want to become involved with you. He sounds like he's just stringing you along at the moment, seeing how long he can 'have' you for but without making any form of boyfriend commitment to you.
Tell him to get lost.
2007-03-19 09:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by finch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is very confused as to what he wants at the moment. He really likes you but he is unsure if he wants a relationship/commitment. Take some time to sit down and talk to him. Ask him in person what he wants.
2007-03-19 09:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by thinkitthrough 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me- he's just keepin' you hangin'. He is making sure you don't go to far.. you should tell him "I really care about you and I respect the fact that you are looking out for my well-being..I will respect your decision and I hope we can still get together". Then go about your merry way..he'll either come running and MAKE time or he'll feel not so guilty about dumpin' you.
2007-03-19 09:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like him then id say fight or him. What i mean by that is everytime he says i cant walk you home cause i will kiss you then grab him and kiss him and say maybe you want him to!! Or like if you are close and he pulls away just grab him he needs to realise that u might want him make him realise!!!
Maybe he will realise you want him 2,
Thats if you want him of course
Sounds all romantic hehe
2007-03-19 09:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Elektra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that, he does like or have feelings for you.
I think with all that is happening in today life, he doesn't want to burden you with his caught up life.
He could also be scared of what could become of the relationship and how he would take it on!!
i think give it another go and see what becomes of you and him.........GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2007-03-19 09:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by popc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go on the date with him. But, be cautious. Nobody wants a broken heart.
2007-03-19 09:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by XoLipGlossoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs to make his mind up!!!! Either he wants to see you and can see you OR he doesn't have the time.
If you are keen then sure meet up but ask him to make his mind up
2007-03-19 09:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋