My ex fiance broke up with me about a month ago. She refused to talk to me and it took me going to her and apologizing for pretty much nothing to get her to talk to me again. Then about a week ago I went to go see her. I walked in and handed her a note that asked her if we could talk about everything going on and asking if we could get back together. Well I walked in and handed it to her asked her to read it and think about it. She said ok and stuck it in her back pocket. Then as I was getting ready to walk out she asked me how I was, I said good how about you? She said good and put a smile on her face but when she realised that I was leaving that smile vanished and was replaced with a ya whatever look. What am I supposed to make of this? If she's interested in getting back with me how come she hasn't replied to that note I gave her? What should I make of this situation?
2007-03-19 02:03:18 · 7 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she's upset with you about something, but she won't tell you what because she expects you to know. All you can do is ask her what's bothering her -- and keep asking until you get an answer. To guys "I don't want to talk about it" means, "I don't want to talk about it." To many women "I don't want to talk about it" means, "Do you care enough to keep asking until I tell you?" If you don't persist, she thinks you don't care. So, if you think the relationship is worth pursuing, keep after her until she tells you what the issue is. Only then can the two of you talk it out and move forward with the relationship.
2007-03-19 02:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no expert but doesn't sound promising to me.I think if she wanted to get back with you you would have heard from her by now.
If you've been together a while there are bound to still be feelings there,hence why she was pleased to see you. I honestly think that if you've apologised for hurting her,and written to her asking to come back you can do no more.You left the ball in her court and she hasn't acted on it.
Maybe the relationship has just run its course.If you continued to ask her back you may face more rejection that will hurt you.
Give it a little longer in case you here from her and if you dont you may just need to accept its over.
2007-03-19 09:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by bungle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that she's bi-polar... She's interested one minute and the next, she's pissed? Would you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that? One minute you think everything is okay and the next,she's a total ***** for no reason? I would reconsider what YOU want and if there's enough patience and room for her in Your life.. Don't lose yourself over another person.. No one is worth that.. But if you really want to work things out, don't write notes. Sit her down and talk, no arguing, no yelling, just plain conversation.
2007-03-19 09:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Go on and talk to her leave the note issue for now. Keep on going to see her take her out for a launch or dinner.
She is interested again in the relationship but you have to create an avenue to talk to her she will open up.
She still likes you for the fact that she gave you audience that should make you know.
Thanks
2007-03-19 09:14:54 · answer #4 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she isnt interested. she was making small talk. she really didnt want to know how you were. forget her and find someone new.
2007-03-19 09:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe someone told her you were on the take or maybe she can't understand how she feels.
2007-03-19 09:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's not yet ready to give the answers to your questions..
give her time..(=
2007-03-19 09:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by '-baby_koh'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋