My sister and I always like to go and hang out with guys...and she be doin you know what sometimes and she tells me to but I dont know if I am ready
2007-03-19 01:54:40 · 19 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're not ready, then don't do it. Your sister can't tell if you are or are not; it's up to you, not her.
2007-03-19 01:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking then you are not ready.. and you know what!!! It is okay to not be ready no need to rush or do things just to fit in.. When you are ready you will know it and you wont have to ask...
Take your time follow your head, if you do not want to then don't and know it is your choice and it is fine to not follow along.
Every person is different some can do "you know what" often with others and some can not. What works for one may not for another and that is fine.. But for you if you do not feel ready then don't do it.. Continue to enjoy life and have fun but do not do a thing till you feel you are ready and always remember it is okay to not be ready.
And if you do feel ready please stay safe while doing so, there is so many STD's out there and no matter how good it can be it is never worth a STD of any kind..
Do what makes you feel good and at this time it sounds as if you are just not ready... :) and that is just fine!! :)
2007-03-19 02:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll have plenty of chance to have sex or turn it down so why force yourself at the moment - ur sister also maybe just trying to make u do it so she doesnt seem like she is easy or anything (maybe??)
If your not ready yor not but it does depend on how old you are to some extent
10-12 = NO
12-14 = if your very very mature otherwise NO
14-16 = if you feel like it maybe, but DONT do it if u dont want to
16-18 = bout time maybe - but take it easy??
18-20 = should have by now
20-22 =are u waiting til u get marrier
i know il offend some people but these figures are realistic and if u vote against me u just prove how delusioned you are
p.s im from australia and guys start around 16 and girls 15 - avg - low avg
in the best answer box say how old you are so i can try to answer this questiona a bit better - u dont av 2 pick mine i just want to answer better
;) good luck and how old is you sister
2007-03-19 02:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Che 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you know you're not ready. And "you know what" is not acceptable on a casual basis.
Wait until you find a person you want to commit to, and he wants to commit to you, preferably in marriage, before you even think of having sex.
Regardless of our enlightened times, never do anything with anyone if you're not ready. You will be giving up the only thing that is totally yours.
2007-03-19 02:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by thankamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are ready to do that...make sure you are with the right person...and trust me you will know when you are ready cause everything in the world around you will be exactly how you wanted it to be....Good Luck!!!!
P.S. don't give it up just to any guy wait for the right guy and the opportune moment.
2007-03-19 02:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to think about it im sure your not ready to have sex..its not somethin to rush or do just because other people are telling you too..when you meet the right person youll just know, and youll kno its time and itll feel right...dont rush that...sex brings up responsibilities and it takes ur childhood away, dont rush it..its a big mistakee.....enjoy being a teenager, its the best years of anyones lives
2007-03-19 01:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Your sister told you that?
Only do it when Your ready.
2007-03-19 01:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can pressure you into doing something that you dont want to do. If you are not ready, then you are not. Let your sister do whatever she wants.
2007-03-19 01:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know if you are ready then you aren't yet you don't have to do things just because your sister does be your own person you will like yourself more and might not care what she thinks
2007-03-19 02:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally wierd that your sister tells you to!!!! She probobly just wants you to be on the same level as her so that she doesn't feel stupid. If you don't know if you are ready then you are NOT. You should tell your mom!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-19 01:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by WhiteDove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋