I texted my ex fiance on friday about getting some from a couple of girls i had met. Wasn't trying to make her jelous or anything, i just noticed she was on myspace kind of late and we are still friends. So i said somthing that may of sounded like i was hitting on her, I wasn't, just making conversation. so i said "don't worry i wasn't trying to hit on you. I'm not interested in you like that anymore" I still am very interested in her. she said "its cool" and i said "I hope you feel better, Good night:)" and she just said "thanks".... do you think she was hurt by my statement? or does she seem like she really isn't interested anymore?
2007-03-19 01:49:51 · 8 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well she has got a "special friend" now too, so that is why i think she isn't interested. but she said she wants to be my friend. so i'm letting her be my friend. I wasn't trying to be insensitive, just up front i suppose. and she is always telling me how she is going to go over to "his" house tonight.
2007-03-19 01:56:48 · update #1
Yup i could tell she was ...I mean you gotta understand that the fact that you and her are not together anymore and you're just friends , doesn't mean that you gonna tell her what are you gonna do with somebody else.I don't know for how long you guys were together but if that was more than a year and you just split up recently , so yes she might be hurt or maybe jealous.About what she's doing or telling you that she'll do is because maybe she's trying to make feel jealous too but anyway if you're still interested in her , why don't you talk to her , and let her know the way you feel for her.
2007-03-19 02:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she was probably being polite because she may still have feelings 4 u. But if u do have feelings for her why don't u say, "what i said the other day was not all true, I do still have feelings for you","still care about you". Because if you really do care, you need to say something right away, she is taking u seriously about what you said..she definatley thinks you don't want her back. Send her some flowers, be a sweetie if you want her!!!!
2007-03-19 08:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a head case. It is game-playing that ruins relationships for both men and women. Grow up!!!
2007-03-19 08:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow....get a clue on how to treat women....of course she was hurt and probably insulted...think you better send her some flowers and a big fat apology for that one pal....
2007-03-19 08:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she was hurt.
At least, that is how I act when something is bothering me.
2007-03-19 08:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by Danica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know is to ask her.
2007-03-19 08:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are kinda weird.
2007-03-19 08:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably didnt appreciate hearing about your other escapades.
2007-03-19 09:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋