i feel guilty..but im proud to love him..he's no bf..he's just a classmate..its not a crush.not an infatuation.its the 1st time in my life that someone had stolen my heart.i dont feel stupid loving a person but not being loved back. i felt happy for him when he's happy and pray for his happiness with his relationship with his gf .but why this guilt?am i wrong to have this feeling for him without his knowledge?
2007-03-19 01:48:22 · 19 answers · asked by aNjAsMaRa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is perfectly normal.....Its nice to love someone from afar.
2007-03-26 23:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see
That I want and I'm needing everything that we should be
I'll bet she's beautiful, that girl he talks about
And she's got everything that I have to live without
Drew talks to me, I laugh cause it's so dam funny
That I can't even see anyone when he's with me
He says he's so in love, he's finally got it right,
I wonder if he knows he's all I think about at night
[Chorus:]
He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only thing that keeps me wishing on a wishing star
He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do
Drew walks by me, can he tell that I can't breathe?
And there he goes, so perfectly,
The kind of flawless I wish I could be
She'd better hold him tight, give him all her love
Look in those beautiful eyes and know she's lucky cause
[Repeat Chorus]
So I drive home alone, as I turn out the light
I'll put his picture down and maybe
Get some sleep tonight
He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only one who's got enough of me to break my heart
He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do
He's the time taken up, but there's never enough
And he's all that I need to fall into..
Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see.
Taylor Swift ~ Teardrops on My Guitar
I know just how you feel hon... i had this for years... the best thing you can do is just keep being there for him and when he is ready for you, you'll know and maybe he'll even tell you... Good Luck Hon!!! ♥
2007-03-19 01:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you sure you're feeling guilt?? Or it more like helplessness??
Indulge yourself for a bit but after a 24 hr grieving period tell yourself that you have to move in - say to yourself outloud "I'm worth it and there's a guy out there who will be really happy I didn't fall for my classmate" and if you say it often enough, you'll believe it and trust me, before you know it you won't even have to say in anymore because it'll just be true - you'll make it true. Take care and all the best.
2007-03-26 15:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by gorg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not at all.sometimes you cant help who you develop feeling for...its okay to love someone, even if they have a girlfriend
and just to let u kno ur not alone...i always had a thing for my xboyfriends best friend...n for the 5 years we were together i never said nething n his friend had a thing for me n never told me either bc he had a girlfriend...now were in a complicated place, but sometimes you feel something and jus tnever kno that the other person feels the same way...soo be positive but trty not to get caught up in the middle of their relationship its not a fun plafe to b...perhaps one day you guys will work as well, just try not to make him the center of ur world pay attention to others until u kno u can b with him or try to work things out
2007-03-19 02:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No this isn't wrong, you may still love him secretly but I would also focus on loving him as a friend, and you never know the closer you two get as friends, his feelings for his girlfriend may change and he may start to love you. If this did happen, it would not be your fault either, he would have left because he wanted to.
I hope everything works out alright.
2007-03-19 18:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love him, that's ok. Theres no problem with that unless you are obsessed with him.. Loving someone is a good feeling but having that someone love you back is the MOST WONDERFUL feeling of all...:) Good luck dear. I hope things will get better for the both of you... I can see that you are truly sincere with your feelings and it would be such a big loss if he didn't even knew that.. :)
2007-03-26 23:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by khatzzz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, don't feel guilty about it, it's not your fault that you loved him, but i think that you are a great person because you are ready to sacrifice for other's happiness, don't worry just tell him your feeling, and maybe he'll loves you,,!
you wanna love him but you can't because he has a gf, but let this not blind you to what virtue there is, !many persons have strive for high ideals and everywere life is full of heroism, there will be a thing that will happen to you,.!
2007-03-19 01:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i dont think it wrong but in a way some people would tell him that he or she like that person see what they would say about that and if that happpen's then you maybe able to be happy if he or she like's that person back and i think it's the best thing to do...well i would talk to him about it and see what he has to say dont say anything to his girlfriend becausse just going to make it worse
2007-03-27 01:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by alisha bessette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have here is a beautiful heart that is able to love...
even when not loved back, I felt that for someone for 10 years, if he is someone you see everyday, try to avoid seeing him, or get yourself busy with other things, communities,sports, crafts,anythig that you have a passion for..
and you want him to be happy with his gf, so why shouldnt you be happy with someone who loves you?
save your love for someone who's loving you!
good luck minousha!
2007-03-19 22:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by HypNotikA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like you are a very polite and considerate girl, your love of life will take you far , as in Happiness, dont worry too much right now baby, you are fine.
2007-03-27 00:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could sense in charge. you're conversing to your b/f which you're relationship him completely on an analogous time as you're secretly relationship somebody else. this is a lie of omission - you probably did no longer tell him the reality. you could sense in charge for mendacity. a thank you to recover from the organic guilt is to tell certainty. %. one guy and date him until you're arranged to break it off then date somebody else. you could sense in charge for mendacity.
2016-12-15 03:35:54 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋