Any Advice for my Maneating friend??

Question

I'm meeting with my friend 2moro and she has a little situation, I know she is gonna ask my advice..

So, Xmas she started seeing a guy, nothing serious, ok bloke, not her usual gorgeous type, New years she met somone else- he txt, they have met up, he has gone a little quite at the mo (she hasn't slept with him, but really likes him), she has also been asked out by a close friend, who txts all the time and now she is meeting up with a really gorgeous bloke who seems 2 like her, taken her on few dates..its all gettin a bit much, 2many men to txt etc, main problem is........

She is still seeing the 1st guy, his family love her, he seems keen but doesn't make a good boyfriend, but she feels bad a does get on well with him, I think she is also scared of being single..

What do you suggest..she is not a slag b4 any of you say that, she was in long relationship b4 Xmas and just needs fun!!

Answer 1

She is too a slag.

Get her to give me a call, won't you?

Answer 2

Honi soit qui mal y pense. Seems to me she's just looking for someone she can really get along with, and having some fun in the interim. Nothing wrong with it as long as she isn't *intentionally* breaking any hearts, and take precautions against pregnancy and STDs. Ideally she would be open with these guys about not wanting exclusivity, but that's not always easy to do anyway. Hell, she might be hoping for something more, but discovering that the guys don't have what she wants.

The idea that this makes her a 'slag' is outrageous. Interestingly, women are more likely to use this label than men are. And men who play around the same way are seen - by other men - as lucky studs most of the time. So what's going on? Could it be that women are actually revealing their nervousness that the next guy she goes after could be someone they like? I wonder...

CD

Answer 3

Been in exactly the same position as you, I was getting a bit exasperated with my best friends love life, soo many men interested and she found it hard to trun them away. She too wanted and needed a bit of fun and attention so I left her too it, was there for her with a listening ear when needed and was there when the men started to lose interest as well. Let her have some attention and fun, just be there for her when she needs it and she'll soon find only one to be with.

Answer 4

well she is not comitted to any one,but i hope she only sleeps with one guy at a time,what i mean is i wouldnt like to be seeing someone who is shagging someone else too,i think thats naughty.