Ok me and my man have been together for a year and 2 months yesterday and he was busy so i didnt get to see him but i did get to talk to him but he decided to flip out and he yelled at me for no reason and he made me cry and everything and then he was lik tomorrow when i see you we are getting it on.....so should i do it after he yelled at me or should i tell him NO! plus lately i have felt like he is just with me for the sex but he says he isnt so what should i do?
2007-03-19 01:38:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only you can make that choice but me personally nope
2007-03-19 01:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this - then it sounds like you're hesitant about it in the first place - which leads me to say you shouldn't do it. Just because he says something doesn't mean you have to listen. You do what you feel is right - you have control over yourself and your body. Everyone has bad days and unfortunately in a relationship the significant other ends up getting the brunt of the emotions that come along with a bad day. Most of the time we tolerate it because we love the person and realize that sometimes we say things we don't mean, but when it gets physical everything changes. I would say no and see how he reacts. If he gets mad at your for this - your instincts may be right, he may just be with you for sex. You deserve to make your own decisions not have have him make them for you - best of luck!!
2007-03-19 02:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I think you've already made up your mind.
If you feel like he's been taking you for granted and now he's venting his frustrations at you for no apparent reason, it's probably time to end the relationship altogether. I think this is what's really upsetting you.
Ending a long relationship can be very difficult. You've become comfortable with having him around, but at the same time, you've developed a sense of disappointment that he doesn't seem to take the relationship as seriously as you do.
I suggest that before you are intimate again, you discuss with him the direction of the relationship.
So, to make a long answer short: No. Don't sleep with him.
2007-03-19 01:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, unless he is unlike any other man in the world (men need sex, I'm not saying they're all just pricks), then he loves you. Forgive him. If you need help from us to figure whether or not you should sleep with him, then it's probably not a good idea. Go with your instincts. Most men probably wouldn't stay with you this long if they were just in it for sex.
2007-03-19 01:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one that can tell you and make your mind if you are going to do it or not, is you. but if you really want to know if he is just using you for sex, then don't. and see how long you can hold out on doing it, and you will see his true colors. if he really cares about you he will be around still, if not then find someone else who will care about you. good luck.
2007-03-19 01:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instinct. If you have any suspicion that this guy's using you, you should go with that.
Remember: He has no right to pressure you into doing anything that you are not ready to do. It will only be time when both of you agree it is.
2007-03-19 05:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know deep down how you feel about this guy. If you love him and want to keep him then you will want to sleep with him. If you are unsure, you will need to assess what you want to do and stick to it when you have made your mind up. You could either walk away and start a new relationship, or try to talk to him to let him know that he has hurt you.
2007-03-19 01:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to have makeup sex. My ex husband used to do that to me, here's my thought....the sex is gonna benefit you to so go ahead. But if you dont want to then do not do it! Either way you should tell him how you feel about the way he acted and how you think he is only with you for the sex, even if you have already told him this, tell him again.
2007-03-19 01:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me he is using you for sex. If he shouted at you and made you cry then dont do it. If i were you i would finish with him as all he wants is sex and if you do have sex with him becareful he might dump you after he gets what he wants
Good Luck Hun xx
2007-03-19 01:48:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like something has him stressed out. You seem to be in his line of fire. He's just upset and taking it out on you. Tomorrow will be a new day.Just see how it goes and take it from there.
2007-03-19 01:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should say no. he don't deserve it after he yelled at u. find someone who loves u back. u don't deserve him.u can do way better than him.there's plenty of guys out there who will treat u right.
2007-03-19 01:46:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋