I was in love with this girl when I was in college, then I proposed along with my parents, though there was friction in that move things moved! Then after one year of relationship, I called it off mainly due to the differences in opinion and family differences thinking that married life will not be successful. I was never able to forget her and never tried for a new girl friend but I got busy with my Post Graduation and then my job. Now after 4 years I have been remembering her daily and it bugs me a lot and I couldn't focus on my work! I am struggling to forget her! How do I? My mind is restless. I am so lost, my mind is not present. I forget things ...... like yesterday I shopped some thing from super market then I went to a cafe to eat, I forgot the whole pack over there and I remembered it only today.
Any who have gone through or does have soem idea to overcome this situation, would appreciate their moral support to me.
2007-03-19 01:22:19 · 15 answers · asked by SiteKing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ending a long time relationship is always difficult to get over but it will take time . Just remember you finished with her for a reason. You'll get over it in time
Good Luck !
2007-03-19 01:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you don't take advise from the average joe. A pity screw, or one night stand will not help. Neither will titty bars, strip clubs, non of that. The best thing to do is forgive. Not forgive and forget. You don't want to forget her, you want to get over her. It sounds like you might still love her, and that you felt immature and unable to provide for her, when you proposed. She might be married now. What you need to do, is see where you are, and see where she is. Find out if you two are "compatible". Maybe there are sparks.
2007-03-19 01:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Nadia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on yaaaaar .......
never cry for missing a Miss or a Bus ...... the next one is around the corner......
have a beer ....... and be cheerful
You loved her sincerely ......... Ok fine enough
She loved you also ............. Double Ok and doubke fine enough...
But whats the point in worryign and making the life miserable...........
Love is not some thing thing important to survive .....
Thats why God has given it to the man at the age of 15 or above.
So forget and learn to live with the reality .......
that you have live the rest of the life without her ........
Live the life happily ............ atleast .......
Dont be sad ......... and make others around you sad.
live and let live
live happily
.
2007-03-19 01:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by surez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I can understand your situation. You forgot her till now, but now being troubled by her thoughts. You can forget her again. I guess, you got enough time now to think of her. Or there is something around that makes you think of her. Make yourself so busy that you don't have time to think of her. Just work on your future goals, have good food, say to yourself that you don't need her. Say to yourself that you can find a better girl. If possible watch tv, or anwer yahoo questions as I do to forget my gf :-)
Keep all her things, thoughts, her words away from you. Just don't try to think of her. Develop interest in some other girl, try to admire your new girl. Or you can even spend time in religious things. In essence keep yourself so busy that there is no time for you to think of her.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-19 01:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by Imruu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hallow friend. I got some suggestions to you to soft this problem, first you have to trow or keep all off your ex gf thing's especially picture and gift. second you have to meet your friend when you are free, don't stay alone, third do some exercise like play football, swimming, jogging or any sport you liked. Lastly you have to take times to forget her maybe have year or 1 year you will slowly get normal and then you will think that you are so stupid n why you did that previous. Good luck.
2007-03-19 02:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by nd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I want to say why listen to your parents of what they think with your wife to be if it going to work or not, No body can say that it's not a lasting marriage or is. the best judgement is within your heart follow your heart with any decissions u have to make choices on. dont listen to ur head. Move on and find someone else, try dating a few woman first n make friends it will help forget her in the meantime before u can find a girlfriend.
2007-03-19 01:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Necro O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make new friends. Concentrate on your studies & job. Be present in the present, don't look back at your past. What happened is happened.
2007-03-19 01:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by mani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya, I could'nt get over my ex-boyfriend for like ever! It just kind of faded over the years, and when I first met my husband I realized that this was the man of my dreams. Eventually you will meet the woman of your dreams. Keep on keepin on.
2007-03-19 01:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by jsgtx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep yourself busy and wait for destiny to get your right match. it happened with me, i haven't forgotten her after 5 years but it doesn't mean i miss her always. SO the thumb rule is keep yourself busy with work or fun. The time is best medicine give more time to yourself.
2007-03-19 02:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by ag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really know what to say.its your fault for breaking it off with her.if you love her so much you shouldnt have broken it off with her.who cares what other people thought about you two.all that matters is that you two are happy.and now she's gone and theres nothing you can do.why dont you try dating?so that you forget about her?if you have any pictures of her get rid of it.or anything that reminds you of her.keep yourself busy.go out with your friends.
2007-03-19 01:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋