I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now and from the first time we have splet together, we have NEVER used a condemn. Now, Saturday night, we had a 6 hours marathon, LITERALLY!!!! But before we even started, he put on a condemn. I was a little puzzled b/c we have never used them, esp. since we only are sleeping with each other. (talked about that already). I could not even get completely into it, b/c I just kept thinking of why he put it on and after awhile took it off and continued without one for the rest of the night. Now, we spent the day seperately and hooked up later that night. He went to a BQ and I hung out with the girls. Now, we did not talk about the condemn afterwards, just enjoyed each others company. Everything was fine afterwards, he called me all day. I just spent the day in bed recuparating. There is nothing different between us, we are more intense now.
Why would he have done this? Would this be some type of sexual trick that I am unaware of?
2007-03-19 01:20:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Far as the condemn. I am a 31 y/o woman and I know that I should be using a condemn, but I did not. I have get pregnant anymore, nor do I want to. The issue is not me using the condemn, but the reason behind him using it, yet taken get off and continuing....Thanks!
2007-03-19 01:32:23 · update #1
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Nah, Babygirl, he put one on because he's banging other females.
From a man's perspective, he would do that - out of respect, in his own little way - but, when the going got good, he threw caution to the wind.
Don't overthink it - because it is what it is. You both are sexual partners - which is understood - so, there is no obligation there.
My answer may not be the most popular, but it's honest and it's the best.
One love, Babygirl.
2007-03-19 01:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be a variety of things. Maybe he had a conversation with someone before coming over about pregnancies or something of that nature that freaked him out a little bit and he wanted to use a condom. But after he had it on awhile and noticed he didn't like the feeling as much or something he decided to take it off. It could be something very small that is just making you worry over nothing - I would talk to him and just let him know it kind of bothered you, it's better to talk through it then think of all the things it may or may not be.
2007-03-19 08:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he put one on b/c he didn't want to bust quickly, a lot of men do that. Anyways, you all should be using a condom, especially if you're not ready to have children,there are too many diseases out here. I hope you all have been tested and can show each other accurate proof and are not just going off each others words.
2007-03-19 08:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others about asking him about it. Could be that he suddenly realized he should be using it then found the feeling is not the same and took it off. I am sure he has a rational explanation about it. Just speak with him.
2007-03-27 07:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe for once the word pregnancy crossed his mind.. and maybe it was the first time he ever tried a CONDOM (not condemn) and he wanted to see how much different sex was with one...maybe in 9 months you will see the difference too..
2007-03-27 06:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the only reason i could see him using a condom is because he wanted to last longer most guys do that
2007-03-27 04:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't a trick.see the first time he cums has lot of semen and will be very potent.during the subsequent coupling the quantity is reduced and so less chances of you getting pregnant.this one theory the other one is he might have thought about safe sex but after the first one, may be the feeling wasn't good,so decided other wise.whatever it is don't get pregnant,without planning.gud luck.
2007-03-19 08:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by alec. 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well if you guys are so "intense" what is so hard about asking him why he used the condemn....
2007-03-26 23:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wanted to prolong the sex and didnt want to *** too quickly
2007-03-27 00:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by lorain182003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wanted to test what it feels to do it with a condemn.you don't have to worry.
2007-03-19 08:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by emma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋