Im not married, not in an relationship and rarely date, should i be worried, like i am. that time is runninfg out for me? I mean all my friends are wither married or popping out kids now...what the heck should i do?
2007-03-19 01:16:21 · 7 answers · asked by Littlemiss Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be Happy !
At 22 you are not Mature enough for Marriage, or Parenthood. Finish your Education. Establish yourself financially first, time isn't running out, it is just beginning ! Waiting until 30 is a good idea !
2007-03-19 01:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie there is nothing wrong with you at all! Its fine to be 22 and unmarried or not in a relationship. I can tell you from my personal experience that I think its better to wait to get married than to marry young. I had my first child at 19 and married her father when she was 4mos old (I was still 19) then we had our son when I was 21. The marriage was rocky and he cheated on me and ended up leaving me for anothe woman after we had been married for 7 yrs. So here I sit 27 and a divorced, single mother of 2kids.
Don't get me wrong I am not saying that ALL people who marry young will have bad experiences, but because of what I've went thru I recommend waiting.
2007-03-19 08:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by suzyalexisandgabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i woud have said that most people wait... to hav kids.. but it seems my old friend from highschool got married around her last years and my brother just got married, he is 25. But I dont think you should be worried, unless you're in a hurry to have kids. Sometimes i wish i wasnt in a relationship. Not that i dont love him.. but well.... anyway.
Don't worry... someone will come along when the time is right. i know it sounds... not right.. but... you'll know, if you dont want it then don't worry... not everyone has to marry and have kids, in any order
2007-03-19 08:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by bloodysnowravenkisses84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do you live? they are all 22 married with kids? Why would you do that to yourself - you should be travelling, developing your job skills with further education - saving money for a home , chasing dreams, dancing - getting a sense of yourself before you chain yourself to someone else and lose yourself in mother hood ( which is nice but very time consuming) Go and play you silly child
2007-03-19 08:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by mickylee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's OK. People who marry at 22 are too impulsive. They haven't taken the time to explore their options.
2007-03-19 12:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There r lots of women like u so don't worry ! U will find someone , u love the most soon ! So don't worry !
2007-03-19 08:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez...dun sound desperate by saying time is running out...guyz run when gals act this way
think like this...im only 22 yrs old..i should b out there dating as many guyz as i can...and having fun...and if during this time i find someone who i realli like and understands me..then maybe i'll consider a serious relationship...and if not then keep searchin..there r plenty of fish in the sea..neva too late...women dont need to get married before 30...so that leaves u another 8 yrs...thats a long time! 22 is too young to b having kids...life is barely starting!!! marrying young is not alwayz a good thing because often u dunno wat u like until u experience wat u dun like...and knowing wat u want takes time...get ur self out there and meet new ppl and decide for urself wat u like
2007-03-19 08:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋