please help?

Question

I have suffered another miscarige and i can not cope my head is so messed up i need to get help i need to end my life i cant go on no more?
this is the 3rd miscarige why cant i carry the babys

Answer 1

adopt a child.
please dont kill urself.
ur parents gave birth to u hard to u n they don wanna see ur life end in the cruel way..
try to adopt a child, then try to be pregnant when ur mental is stable.

Answer 2

see a doc , now , don't give up , it's not the end of all , try another way to have a baby , ive a friend and she had many miscariges , but she wanted a baby more and she has 4 now so don't give up

Answer 3

you can it just hasnt happend yet my mom had to miscariges befor me and thought i was gona be another are you sure it was a miscarige because you could have been just like my mom its a good thing you didnt give birth to a dead baby those are realy hard to get over

Answer 4

You need counselling, through your doctor, or mental health facility. Consider trying again, after several months on a balanced, organic, vegetarian diet, as it is possible that accumulated toxins have affected you more than most, but only when emotionally prepared for it, or consider adoption. You can provide an egg, which is fertilised by your partner's sperm, and a surrogate female can bring it to term; there are many alternatives to explore. No smoking, alcohol, caffeine, etc. Moderate exercise. Tai Chi, yoga & meditation may also be of benefit in ridding you of stress & anxiety, which can adversely affect your body, as well as your mind. http://www.selfhelpmagazine.com Meditation room; try it out; mantra meditation; repeat: "easy". 20 mins daily, and when needed.

Answer 5

well ending your life -- will end any hope of you achieving a goal --- so that certainly is not the answer --- because you are alive and well --- you need to seek professional help before despair ---m i can understand it can be very traumatic --- i only had one chance of a kid in life --- and my partners mother chose to advise her to abort ( why i will never know ) --- but look don't lose sight --- get some advice professionally and if the worse comes to the worse --- like this other girl said --- you can adopt --- not that difficult --- and think about it hard enough might be the way to go --- do not end your life --- you are not a failure --- trust me . good luck

Answer 6

Death is not the answer at all just get professional help or if all else fails adopt a baby there is a lot who needs a good home and a loving mother

Answer 7

dont kill urself..first off...i cant say i know how u feel but ur life is precious. u may need to see what ur doc says about having a baby , and maybe take a break from trying right now. it seems so many times when ppl go thru and so closee back to back it takes its toll...relax...see a doc, see 2 if you have to..they may be able to find the problem..and good luck and there are other options..adoptions, surrogate..

Answer 8

Adopt, you life is so valuable, please do not harm yourself. Adopting, i may never be able to have childer either, so i was considering adopting, i didnt like the idea at first because i wanted to experience birth and have *my own* child,(many people are not capable of carrying a child either because they never fully develpoed or because their body knows it can nto handle it) if you need some one to talk to e-mail me or something i will be there, i am not just saying that i really will do everthinh i can to help you, this is a very sad time for you and i understand......you are cared about
Hope it helps e-mail me through my profile and we can talk(chat)

Answer 9

Its because you are causing yourself so much stress. When you get pregenant you worry about lossing right. you get almost composive right. calm down. wait some time, and try again, and just tell yourself that its going to be OK. Keep calm and you WILL have that baby.

Answer 10

Don't harm yourself. God Loves you and he will give you your hearts desires! Ask Jesus to come in to your life and bless you with child. Have FAITH! God will send you angels to help you!