Is he interested?

Question

Sometimes I get the feeling my friend likes me, but I keep telling myself it's not possible. Whenever he sees me he smiles - a proper, face-lighting-up smile. He sometimes smiles at me across the room for no particular reason. When we're walking somewhere he walks really close to me, but I might be imagining that. He'll often sit next to me, either when we're at friends' houses or at church (where I know him from). Recently he's started apologising if he doesn't sit with me - saying things like 'I've just got to go and talk to ...' when I'd made no mention of him sitting with me. I talk to him a lot, and sometimes he asks me questions like when my birthday is. He tells me a lot about himself and his family, and has confided in me when he's had problems with one of his friends. He'll always talk to me when he sees me, and sometimes I get the impression he's trying to be close to me or coming to things because he knows I'll be there. He's shy so it's hard to tell what he's thinking.

Answer 1

Either he's really glad to have you as a friend or he's thinking about you in a romantic way. You should ask him about how he would feel if you were going out. If he says no, what's the big deal? At least you would know. And if your relationship is as strong as it seems, then it won't hurt it.

Answer 2

From your description of things, it seems as though he sees you only as a friend he can talk to.

Answer 3

Make the next move, put a lip lock on him. If he puts one back, you've snagged him.

Answer 4

the simple answer to this would be...that if u like him then go on and ask him out or something....but if you don't then leave it to him.....if he likes you then he will surely come up to you.....apart from that...the condition you have specified out here to an extent suggests that he likes.......

Answer 5

ask him if he wants something more than a frienship

Answer 6

i am a black man so i guess so