Hi Guys, So I went out on the date with the younger guy (I'm 25, he's 19), we had great fun, got on really well went for a nice long drive and carried on having a bit of fun..(I know 1st dates shouldn't involve sex, but coulden't resist), went out for another drink at wkend, again had nice time, he wants to meet up 2nite, blowing off his mates that he arranged to go out with...I feel a little bad, but I didn't ask 2 meet up 2nite..
Its all fun, and i coulden't see us bein an item, but is it bad to carry on meeting up? xx
2007-03-19 00:51:42 · 21 answers · asked by money bank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course it isn't, if you are both single and having fun, go nuts!
before long though you will both have to decide what you want out of each other and come to an agreement, just sex? full relationship etc
2007-03-19 00:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact he blew off his mates indicates he may be slightly more into you then you are him. Maybe put some distances between the times you meet up. That should indicate that you don't want to be in each others pocket and want something casual.
Thats the sensible advice but just enjoy it and try not to think to much about it.
2007-03-19 08:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by D.W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he knows it is just a bit of fun with no long term hopes, then fine, you are both consenting adults. But if he thinks you are heading towards a relationship, then you need to make it clear to him exactly what it is you are looking for - or not looking for.
2007-03-19 07:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by louloubelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be careful not to lead him on. You are building expectations. If those expectations are inaccurate, you are headed for heartache, either getting it, causing it or both.
Typically, relationships built on sex first do not last and you both need to recognize that. Please do NOT take this path again with someone with whom you think you could get serious.
2007-03-19 07:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bob T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
meet him 2nite, meet him tomorrow, meet him the day after tomorrow and when he'll tell u that he loves u have a nice chat with him and dump him
2007-03-19 08:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by lowrider 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no , if you tell him it is all just for fun and no strings attached otherwise yes as he could end up getting hurt thinking its more than what it is and i am sure you dont want that so just be honest with him and take it from there.
2007-03-19 07:55:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both parties are enjoying it and no one is getting hurt what is the harm. You are both getting your sexual desires catered for and are happy to do so.
Relax and enjoy it while it lasts.
2007-03-19 07:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Eddie Star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, so wot if it doesnt go anywhere, ur young and jus avin a good time.
2007-03-19 08:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you play it safe and protect yourselves! Otherwise have a ball (so to sp:)!
2007-03-19 08:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Maudie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course not if your single and he is go 4 it whats wrong with a bit of fun
makes u happier after all!!
2007-03-19 07:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by Elektra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋