Does she really care?

Question

Hi! I have been seeing this girl for almost 7 months now. But for the last few months(2) she has been preoccupied with her family and work. However, i feel things have changed dramatically in our relationship, she barely calls me and doesn't even reply to my sms. I am always the one who calls her, sometimes she doesn't like me calling her. She says that she wants to be with me and loves me. when ever we talk we are fighting over the phone. she keeps me in dark, and i am the middle of everything..what should i do

Answer 1

let her know how you feel about her and that you love her. if she says she is not interested, then move on with your life and forget about her.someone who does not answer your sms's does not care.

Answer 2

It is clear this relationship is in real trouble she is either distancing herself to try and figure out what she wants you or someone else. Or she is afraid of getting hurt, feeling smothered or simply just doesn't know. Either way your feelings are going to be hurt. How can she say she loves you if she is playing with your heart and mind. And it has only been seven months and you two are already fighting. Distance yourself from her do not call or contact her for three days if she does not contact you then sit her down talk to her tell her your heart cannot be put through this and be prepared on walking away realizing one thing. You are a person who deserves to be loved and valued and it may hurt now but there is a nice loving girl waiting for you to find her. Good luck.

Answer 3

I agree... its hard to say becasue on one hand she might just have alot of things on her mind at the moment and she may just need time to sort things out. How close were you before this happened because if you didnt talk about much before it may just be a very private issue that doesnt involve you and she doesnt want to tell you because she doesnt want to involve you. (ie family problems or even health problems)

But on the other hand she might not be thinking the same as you about the relationship.

Give it time... it sounds hard to do because you just want to know now but its never a good idea to push her into telling you whats wrong it may spark an arguement which never a good thing.

Answer 4

Sounds like she is losing interest. Sit down with her and tell her like it is, get everything worked out, and if she honestly doesnt want to be with you and put 100% into it, then dumb her. Dont waste your life and time being with someone who doesnt feel the same.

Answer 5

What do you mean by her family?Is she married?If so, this is the reason for your problems...Otherwise,sounds like she's either playing games with you..or really isn't sure about where she wants to go with the relationship.It's up to you to decide whether or not you want to stick around until she decides.

Answer 6

you need to talk to her. explain just how you feel. Ask her if maybe you can help her. Sounds like she has a lot of stress right now and you need to help her through it.Even if it is just backing off for a little while. Just talk to her get your feelings out. be as honest as you can.

Answer 7

tell her it bothers u
ask her wats up
she may just b preoccupied and rly busy
try and get some alone time with her (in person) to talk things out

Answer 8

tell her about what you feel. most girls are very difficult to read. you just have to tell her what you believe is the problem, hoping that she might talk to you in return. girls are irrational at times especially when they are in a relationship.

Answer 9

end it. u r just wasting ur time. she is really not into u. she does not know how to tell u that and she does not want u feeling bad that is why she is telling you she loves you but her actions is saying something else.

Answer 10

Have a talk with her, maybe she has a problem in her life. Ask if you can help, if this is the case.