she always get her what she want and never gets me what i wnat. In one day it will be my birthday and i had to use my money to buy my clothes and when i went shopping she bought my sister clothes is it me or she hates me. Help me please!!!!
2007-03-19 00:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mom did the same thing. The reason is because I was more independent than my sister. My sister was also much less fashion saavy than me, and didn't care as much about her appearance. My sister was also very moody, and I think my mom was trying to make her happy. My grandmother has also done the same thing with my sister for a totally different reason; she connects with my sister best because they have similar personalities. This used to hurt my feelings very badly when I was very young and definitely changed my relationship with both mother and grandmother (I gave up trying to connect with my grandmother years ago, and now she is reaching out to me for the first time since she is very old), but with age comes wisdom. Speak to your mom in confidence and let her know how you feel. Print these posts and show her the feedback. She'll understand that now is the time to make changes in your relationship if she wants to have a good relationship with you when you're older. Good luck.
2007-03-19 00:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always natural that parent do not love their kids equally, although they luv their kids as parents should do, but their luv for each child is always not the same. most times it can be becos of how the child is behaving, or things he loves doing or what the parents encounter during and after a particular child's birth. dont just get yourself worried about it, if you are doing sometin they dont like, try stopping it and you will see there will be a big change
2007-03-19 00:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to talk to your mom to tell her how you feel. If you dont communicate with her how you feel then nothing will be resolved.
Ask your mom why she spends money on your sister but not you, tell her that you feel neglected and that she has favorites. If she is a real mom then she will understand and talk to you, good luck.
2007-03-19 00:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe your mom hates you.your mom knows you know how to take better care of yourself than your sister can.Please tell her how you feel and you will be surprised at her answer.
2007-03-19 00:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not hate u. may be she does not know how to relate to u. talk to her about how u feel.
2007-03-19 00:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋