Girls....what would you make of this?....need help!!!?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

asked this girl to the movies the other day, not as a date, but just said, lets go movies tonite...., she accepted, then said " will you be paying for my movie???"....whats that mean??i said yes of course...is that a hint?Sometimes, shell never txt me during the day, and if i txt her....she txt's back almost instantly....and then she'll not txt again for ages....whats this mean...this is when i get the feeling shes not interested....Me and her are always on and off like this, and at the start she was always talkative and stuff...but recently shes gone silent....i cant make anything of this?

Would it be best for me to wait for her to say something to me...right now its me doing all the effort, and she only responds....it never used to be like this....that is why i get mixed signals

Answer 1

She want you to be the one to make all the moves. She flirts a lot and tries to keep your attention, but wants you to do the actual asking out.

Answer 2

I know you may not like my answer but it sounds like she may be using you. And you are a convenience to her. What I mean is it is wrong for any girls to ask a guy if he is paying. She could of said I will go in halves or one pays for the movie and the other pays for the snacks. She only tex you after you tex her. That is a sign she is not really invested in you. She is clearly playing with your feelings and your mind personally I would not waist my time back off a little and see if she makes an effort with you for a change, if not find someone who will value you and all you have in your heart.

Answer 3

Ok - I think this girl really does like you. A lot of girls hesitate to be open about their feeling towards guys because of the fear of rejection. Its pretty cool that she is comfortable enough to sleep infront of you, that shows trust. She is probably just busy when she does not reply or send you texts. Tell her not to phone your parents or friends if that annoys you, it is best to be open about your feelings.

Also a lot of guys don't pick up on the we signals us girls send out! I reckon you should just ask her out on a proper date! If you leave it to long she will move on anyway, because there is only so long someone will wait on a guy! U have to take the risk. Also it is better for the guy to ask the girl out! Tradition always has a place in romance.

Just go for it! Good luck!

Answer 4

the two of you love yourselves very much, but do not know how to approach your self, as a guy take the initiative to call her for a date and discuss your feelings towards her

Answer 5

she obvisiously likes you and wants to be with you. she feels comfortable talking to you and just being around you. she's flirting with you too. just ask her out on a real date. she's playing games with you and just end the game and ask her out.

Answer 6

you both like each other very much, go for it and ask her out.
once you get that relationship status formalised, things will go on more smoothly.
good luck mate