i am really proud to love this guy. he's no bf of mine. but i truthfully love him. he's become part of my heart since then. I know he loves and adore someone else. but i still love him. although he's with somebody, i feel proud to love him and will pray for his happiness. I don't feel hurt that my love for him is not being returned. from the first day since i saw him, i felt that i've already lost my heart to him. i admire his smile,personality and character from afar.i agree im just being a fool to love a person without being loved back.How do i say if i just cannot get my mind off him. im not crazy but i do not know why i just cannot forget him but regard him as a classmate. But is this called love?
2007-03-19 00:00:54 · 11 answers · asked by aNjAsMaRa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't go for his appearance or physically..i just have this feeling out of a sudden and never hope for anything in return.I am happy when i see him happy and im glad that i loved him from afar and nt breaking up his relationships with his gf.i feel that he is the guy of my dreams and will not disturb his life eventhough i love him.seeing him happy makes me feel happy for him.i hope he gets his happiness and meet thegirl of his dreams.i will always pray for him.is it wrong to love him?
2007-03-19 00:19:15 · update #1
love is sacrificing, caring, loving, protecting a person that is important to you and that you sheltered,m.!
it's really hard to explain but its very powerful ones you felt it nothing can stop you for doing the things your heart desires
no matter how smart you are the heart sometimes gets to be an idiot..!
it's hard to say but easier to express.
2007-03-19 22:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I feel like Im reliving some of my own moments from not so long ago. I know what its like to love someone and have them not return them (well he has now) but thats not the point, the thing is when I did fall 4 him he was unavailable at the time & I wasnt hurt that he was, cause deep down I knew that I made an impression on him, I gave him a new light to see and this is even tho he was seeing someone else, its a feeling I knew that I captured his heart but I didnt make anything of it I just avoided him alot 2 give him space cause I didnt want to damage his relationship in anyway so I kept my distance. & arnd Nov last yr him & his girlfriend broke it off cause she moved overseas (They had been going out for a yr b4 I met him) & now he's single & we're hitting it off like a house on fire. My point is if your willing to make sacrifices e.g like not interferring in someone elses business)somehow you will be rewarded maybe not with the person who gave you those feelings in the 1st place but with someone who has been waiting 4 you as well.
I hope this has helped in some way for you. To be honest Im not sure if any of this makes sense hehe but I hope you at least find some sort of answer that helps you with peace of my mind.
But I'd say its a very strong attraction close to love, its when you feel the relationship gets deeper or gets closer is when you start feeling, feelings from every cnr of your body, soul, heart & mind that yknw its Luuurrrvvee hehe
Enjoy the feeling cause its definitely leading up2 I reckon.
Your a very strong person mate your gonna make a great gf 4 someone one day
2007-03-19 11:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to be in love. ANd love may and can be returned. But what most do not realize is there are many types of love. Do you love your father the way you love your man? Do you love your dog the way you love your sister? Love is not the issue, its what kind of love. You dont want to screw up a relationship because you have the admiration and respect for someone but find out later thats all there is to it. It may not be an intimate sexual love, or a respectful "i love you daddy" love, but it may just be an "I respect you as a person, dont ever change our connection" kind of love. Make sure youre sure before you let your feelings destroy your relationship. Feelings are very deceptive.
2007-03-19 01:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by atlazdrama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion Love only happens when you know someone intimately, when you have seen their good and bad sides and still love them. If you know him really well (say you are very close friends) then yes I think you could definitely define the emotion as love.
If he is someone that you dont know all that well and are just admiring him from afar then I would say its an infatuation and not real love.
But regardless of all this. You are not hurting anyone and it makes you feel good so call it whatever you want :)
2007-03-19 00:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by aims48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is simply put,a very strong emotion.What you are feeling,I would catogerize as infatuation,or "puppy love" because you dont have any real relationship with him!Your more in love with his style and looks etc!
Maybe you DO "love" him.If love is an emotion then I guess we all are apt to expierience it in many different forms and for different reasons.I will not try to speculate on what those "reasons" may be,however remember that if you can't be with the one you love,love the one your with!PS its ok to say if you think hes HOT!You know you do.
2007-03-19 00:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love actually was a movie that follows the lives of eight very different couples in dealing with their love lives in various loosely and interrelated tales all set during a frantic month before Christmas in London, England.
2007-03-19 00:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by dv4unme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend---this is so sad------love like you have in your heart needs to be shared with someone not hidden this way---I like you and care about you----------you need to put your best foot forward and approach this man and tell him of your feelings----------if it is meant to be he will dump her and you will be together-------if he does not want to leave her then you better find someone you can share that beautiful big heart you have with-----------someone will be very fortunate to have found a precious jewel like you!
2007-03-19 00:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with how you feel.I am just proud of your maturity and sincerity.you will go a long way in life.
2007-03-19 00:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its NOT TRUE love, its more of an infatuated state of mind!
2007-03-19 00:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not love.... that's infatuation & it will soon fade away. believe me!
2007-03-19 02:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋