our friend is 21, but never had a girl friend. he has friends but are all girls.... doesnt hang around with guys, just girls.....any ideas? gets upset when we mention it to him
2007-03-18 21:19:13 · 20 answers · asked by paul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes not gay. well not necessarily. he probably just gets along with girls better: i know lots of guys like that.
i think he always meets girls asa friends, andthey get stuck in the 'friend zone', so they never get any further. your friend is obviously not socially inept, so he should have no problems getting a girlfirend. take him out to bars or clubs, give him a few pointers and he'll be good to go
2007-03-18 21:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by maraesa1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known guys like this. All the girls want to be his best friend but he has a real hard time taking it any further. I wouldn't worry about it. Friendship is the best way to kick off a relationship anyways. He'll end up with a hottie that started off a friend and probably have happier relationships than most.
2007-03-19 04:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two reasons he may be like this... He is gay or he does not feel threatened by girls he likes the caring and compasion that he feels around them. Maybe he has low self esteem and being around girls makes him feel good. Girls can be good friends and we always need that special guy in our bunch that we get advice from!!!! Don't complain about him find you a group of girls you can chill with there are benefits that you can use when relating with your girl or dating.
2007-03-19 04:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Nectory S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to your own question, but just to be clear: odds are he's gay.
Same thing happened with my best friend from high school. He eventually came out to us (his friends). Luckily we'd all matured enough by then that we accepted him for who he was.
Hopefully you and your other friends can do the same for your (probably) gay friend when the time comes.
2007-03-19 04:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by MikeJW99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he hasn't found 'the one' yet. Maybe he's saving himself for marriage or maybe he is gay and is just worried what the guys are gonna say. Anyway...there is nothing wronf with a man who likes to get in touch with his feminin side once in a while!!!
2007-03-19 05:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dose not mean he is gay it just means he likes girls company better , or it might be because he likes one of the girls he is friends with , u could help him by introducing him to some single girls and see how it goes
2007-03-19 04:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by ak222002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he hasn't found the right girl. Plus how would you know he doesn't have a girlfriend but he just hasn;t told u about her.
2007-03-19 04:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and im thinking that maybe he is gay and just hasnt come out of the closet to his guy friends yet??
2007-03-19 04:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg are he a gay? or he just wanna stay as single now.. 21 still young..
2007-03-19 04:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by jason l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many men prefer female company.
I don't think you need to psychoanalyse your friend.
2007-03-19 04:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋