I was looking through my boyfriends cell phone for text messages my sister sent me through his phone, and found a text message from a girl giving him her phone number
along with a couple others asking him if he knew "how to get to her house" and "how it went the other night"
I went straight to him and asked him who she was...all he said was "i dunno, why?" but i was just so mad i walked away from him.
now he left our house and took his phone with him.
does it seem like he's hiding something?
I have also found other girls' phone numbers on his phone too.
what should i do now?
i was thinking of texting this girl back and acting like i was him to see what she said but he left.
2007-03-18 21:09:29 · 12 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some of you think i should mind my own business and just get played to act like everything is ok?
2007-03-18 21:15:42 · update #1
BTW i dont care if he goes through my messages i dont get texts like that from other guys
2007-03-18 21:16:33 · update #2
Well keep your guard up on this. You never know what a person is doing. Look at his history with you. Has he cheated or been devious before? If you guys just hooked up pay attention. If the girl continues to send him texts that seems like flirting or like their messing around ask him to cut her off for disrespecting your relationship. Make sure too that he's not telling her things like "I'm single." etc.
2007-03-18 21:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by iluv_darrell 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Immediately bail out of this situation. Nobody who really cares about you is going to be talking and exchanging numbers with other girls. It is easy to want to believe what they say, but the truth is that in the long run the trust level will never be there and for good reason. If your gut tells you anything at all that he is hiding something, he is. I know it's easier said than done, but you must leave this relationship. Being miserable isn't what it's about. Security and love is.
2007-03-18 21:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by asleepwiththetvon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there arent many ways you can find this loser. If you know any really really good friends that are cops on the other hand that dont mind bending the rules for you, you might be able to find out. If there is some way you can locate the persons I.P address from that message you might have a start.
2016-03-29 05:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u shouldnt have been snooping around his phone... secondly if hes ur bf does it mean he cant have other friends that are girls ???and the message couldve meant anythin .. ur jus assumin somethin ur not sure of and by asking him over an over ur jus lettin him know u dont trust him and sometimes if a guy's bein loyal and his girl still treats him like a convict it really is a turn off maybe thats why he walked away !!! if u trusr the guy dont ask him nothin but if u have doubts ur not sure of either then do it in a diplomatic way !!!!good luck !
2007-03-18 21:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by I V X 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you missed a good chance to do just that. I know my boy-friend you have done it and then, whether he was right or wrong in doing it his response would be: "all is fair in love and war".
2007-03-18 21:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by Teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? First of all, you should stop going through your boyfriend's messages. That's it. Would you like him to see yours? No, right? Relationships are all about trust, and if you can't trust him because of that, then you should break up.
2007-03-18 21:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Horumaket 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course he had been unfaithful to you. What do you plan to do about it??
Get rid off him?? - fine go ahead!!!
Constantly get angry, shout and nag him? Yes you can.. But he will leave you high and dry
Forgive him - good, that is the right thing to do and make sure you are good enough for him that he need not have to depend on other girls, what you cannot do for him
2007-03-18 21:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Who cares? Is he not allowed to have friends that are girls?
I think you should lay off him just a little bit before he breaks up with you. Try not to smother him, k?
=D
2007-03-18 21:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Talk to him
2015-04-12 10:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Gdfsa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly yes, he is cheating or thinking of cheating on you...so dump him and move on!!!
2007-03-18 21:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋