did too much on the first date?

Question

so, ok... i did way too much on the first date.no intercourse . i just serviced him. i couldnt help it. he is so fine! i love his game! anyways, 3 days later his friend calls me? i told his friend to tell him i said hi. am i crazy

Answer 1

If dude respected you at all he would have called you himself the very next day. Keep your mouth to yourself next time if you want a guy to think of you as girlfriend material. His friend was probally calling to see if he could get in on the action. Don't be so easy, make the guy work for it he will respect you for it later.

Answer 2

It seems to me that you made a big mistake! Now he may only think of you as a chicken head! The only way you could find out for sure is if you talk to him again! Are you friends with this friend of his? If not, he probably passed on your number thinking you would service the friend too! Some guys just can't understand the girls like sex too! Anyways, talk to him to see where you stand! If he seems to think you are not the woman you are - don't be upset. Chalk it up to the fact that he's a typical dumb a** guy that can't handle an assertive female! If he does seem to really be into you...take it a little slower! Make sure he services you before you service him again! Good luck!

Answer 3

How old are you? you're not crazy.. but I think you need to slow down. It doesn't mean he's fine you're gonna do everything so quick. He'll probably end up thinking you're easy and will probably not respect you as much as what you really deserve.. Girls need to play the "hard to get" card for some real respect. And most guys actually find that hotter. Stand your ground, let him know your role. He can't just trample on you like that... if you stay on the same course, he will just ditch you and get another girl.

Answer 4

No why would u think that your crazy?? Men do stuff like that all the time, including intercourse and they don't think anything of it. I mean I don't think u should do that to every guy the first time u date them. We're human, we make mistakes. Well it doesn't sound like you think it's a mistake so, does it matter?? Hell No u ain't crazy girl, just be safe.

Answer 5

Of course you did too much on the first date, you are now and easy prey that he wants to share. When will you girls understand that a guy does not think the same way as you do about sex?

Answer 6

Wow, what a lucky guy. How would you like to go on a date with me? Seriously, you did way,way too much on a first date coz you just showed him that you're just an easy girl.

Answer 7

How adoreable--serviced him because he is so fine--how nice he is to show you his game. Did you at least get dinner out of the deal?? Hmmmmmmmmm sounds like a familiar occupation.

Answer 8

You're not crazy, you're just easy. You obviously have no self respect. I'm sure you'll just casually dismiss my opinion and think to yourself that I must be some fat loser who's just peeved that I ain't getting any, and that's fine. It's no skin off my back if you want to degrade yourself that way. Knock yourself out. It's your life.

Answer 9

Two things...
1. Didn't you think it was ODD that his friend called you after that situation????
2. Did he service you???? If not, he's a jerk!!!!!!!!!!

Don't let FINE LOOKS get in the way of COMMON SENSE!

Answer 10

You are crazy. You have missed the first train to extreme enjoyment. For next nights it becomes regular. Do not do it with new husband , if you intend to have.
Sandeepa