i really have found the man my dreams but he a marine and i dont have a probelm with it but other people do.Would I be mad marry him in the future?
2007-03-18 21:01:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its your life
2007-03-18 21:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becoming a military wife is a tough thing in general.
Also, I can only infer (and I could certainly be wrong) from the fact that he's in the Marines that you haven't known him that long, and you probably haven't been able to spend a lot of time together. Regardless of what a potential spouse does for a living, this is something to be concerned about.
Finally, take it from a guy who wasn't in the Marines, but ended up hooking up with a girl whose fiance was (she didn't tell me they were engaged), those relationships tend to be very exciting, fast, etc. They have to be, because time is short. But its hard on both side when he's overseas.
You mention marrying him in the future, but its not clear how far you mean. If you can wait until he's out of the service, that's a better plan. You could stay committed to him, and if that holds until he's out, and then after several more months, then go for it. But if you feel like wandering while he's gone, well that's a sure sign that either you're not ready, or the relationship just isn't right. There's no shame in any case...the most important thing is to not make a HUGE mistake.
Love IS blind. Sometimes you need to ignore the people around you and do what you feel is right. But if everyone around you is concerned, its worth stopping and trying to see things from their point of view. You may decide they're still wrong, but give it some serious thought.
2007-03-18 21:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jim S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to live in a town where there was an armed forces base. every Friday and Saturday night there used to be trouble as the soldiers, etc, would come into town and chat up the local girls/women.... which in turn would upset the local guys, and then there'd be fights..... so as u can probably tell, i personally wouldn't be attracted to someone who serves in the forces. but that's my opinion. i'm sure that there will be decent guys who serve in the forces, not just ones who's main aim in life is to sleep with as many women as possible ! use your own judgement - if u love him, then go for it. you'd only regret it if u didn't. hopefully your friends / family will see him in a better light once they know him a bit better. good luck.
2007-03-18 21:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 04:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about what other people think. He may be a marine who cares if you love him and want to be with him be with him. If there are people around you who don't value your feelings you don't need them. The people who don't like him are probably just jealous of what you have.
2007-03-18 21:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jayde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marine is a man when all is said & done some are good some are bad....there are no guarantees. But never mind what others think... If you think he's Mr. Right ....Go for it!
2007-03-19 00:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by maureen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think very carefully and make sure you know what you're letting yourself in for. Think of weeks/months of loneliness when he's sent away on duty and you have to be apart
2007-03-18 22:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by superscorer2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to them. If you love him and he loves you and you are both happy together then go for it. Dont let jealous idiots stand in your way
2007-03-18 22:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't care about what other people think. If you love him marry him.
2007-03-18 21:12:03 · answer #9 · answered by cbludaisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell those other people that would have a problem to go and shuff it up there arses
2007-03-18 23:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take any notice of what anyone else thinks! go for it, lifes is to short!!!
2007-03-18 21:15:23 · answer #11 · answered by jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋