Can someone help me? its jus happen to be like this, on that day i msg her too much and call her too much.. and i told her i like her.. she rejected and and started to avoid me, but now is better at least she do sms with me just dont answer my call. I know i have been too impatient and sensitive, i tired to change it but she dont see it. guy/gal can anyone tell me whats should i do next? what can i do to let her less avoiding me.. and back to the time that we use to be? is that still chances?
2007-03-18 20:55:52 · 5 answers · asked by jason l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is she dont even message me again? will i lose this friend? all i wan is just to be friend with her now and nothing else. sometime i cant stop myself from msging her!
2007-03-18 21:12:17 · update #1
So i stop sms her a few days. and see how but can i sms her a good nite msg at least?
2007-03-18 21:45:38 · update #2
leave her alone!!! for a few days atleast, shes feeling smothered...give her a break to figure out that she likes you around! ok? you'll be fine. :)
2007-03-18 20:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Back off for awhile. You sound too desperate. That could be a turn-off for her. If she isn't interested in a relationship, then she isn't interested. Period. You can only make things worse by trying so hard. They call that "stalking". She may also feel very uncomfortable around you because you were so aggressive. I would just put your energy into something or someone else.
2007-03-19 04:28:55 · answer #2 · answered by Twisted Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't control what aother person does, you can only control yourself. It sounds like she wasn't interested in a relationship with you. She is still texting you back so she must still want to be friends. Just stop texting her for a while and see if she texts you.
2007-03-19 04:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything done in excess bears bad results.
in your case you have shown too much imaptience and scared the girl off or may be projected an immature image of yours.
chill for a while . keep low for say two weeks. and then try talkin gto her face to face in a mature manner.
best of luck
2007-03-19 04:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's not interested in a relationship, but might just want to be friends.
2007-03-19 03:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋