What scare men away?

Question

Trying to understand men...

what scares men away from a women? How do you know from the first date that you do not want to get involved with her? What are some common mistakes women make?

Answer 1

Women who are needy, naggy, rude, loud.
Women with hairy legs and/or mustaches.
Women who smoke.
Women who worship their cell phone.
Women who are on mental crutches.
Women who give their number to bartenders.
Women who wear too much makeup.
Women with the big bunions on their feet.
Women who 8itch all the time.
Women with man hands.
Women with skin tags on their neck, face or private area.
Women with worm lips.
Women who work part time at the strip club while dating you and fail to mention it.
Women who don't know how to kiss.
Women who are bad huggers.
Women who want you to pay for all their $hit.
I'm getting tired now....................................................

Answer 2

Being demanding of their time and giving them little freedom, trying to change them when they aren't ready for change, being clingy and needy(not having your own life) will scare them off.
There is either an attraction or there isn't. If there isn't it won't ever happen. Much better to move on. If there is a physical attraction on the first date but something that is important to the guy is uncovered that disagrees with him...then that's it!
Telling a guy more than he needs or wants to know too quickly is a mistake. Some women think they have to reveal their life stories as soon as they meet someone. What can he discover about her in upcoming months if this happens? And going to bed with them right off the bat, in my opinion, is usually a mistake. Doesn't a woman think she is worth the wait?

Answer 3

Wearing too much makeup, and wearing clothes that just dont fit in all the right places. A guy dosnt want to take out a tramp or streetwalker he wants to take out a lady. Most men I know prefer women not to wear makeup, gobbing all that stuff on your face just takes away from your natural beauty.
Taking over the conversation and talking more then he does.
Looking at other guys.
Not being honest, if your on the first date and you know your not interested, finish with the rest of the date out of respect that he took you out, but at the end of the date, be honest with him and tell him that hes just not the one your looking for. Be nice about it, dont be a *****, even tho you dont like him as a date or bf, you may still be friends with him.

Answer 4

Good question! Whenever I try to scare men away they fall for me hard. I tell them weird things that sound like I'm confiding or things I'd normally only share with my best girl friends.
And then when there's a guy I really want to keep I keep my mouth shut about the "interseting" things. I guess this has taught me that guys like it when girls are themselves and they can detect when you're holding something back. Secrets are good, being fake is not.
Other things I've learned: Play hard to get, easy for him means you've been easy for every other guy before him and you'll probably be easy for other guys while you're with him, also show you have confidence, you are great and sometimes guys need our help in seeing this plus it shows you won't be constantly needing approval i.e. "does this make me look fat?"

Answer 5

when they take cell phone calls on the date, or show other signs that they don't care. lack of honesty about what they want or how they feel is probably a common mistake by women.

I cannot think of much more because generally I am quite attracted to women. Oh, I myself dislike a lack of moral values, like getting involved in things they shouldn't outside of marriage.

Answer 6

Women with emotional baggage, clinginess, lack of confidence, too much of i-don't-care attitude or lack of interest, loudness, absence of brains, i-am-always-right kind of attitude. There could be many more things like body odor, improper hygiene etc., varies from situation to situation.

If relation ship progresses satisfactorily, at a later stage, lack of will to accept your feelings towards him. If u r in love, accept that, don't just keep pretending that u don't, after-all, men too have emotions and they also want to be loved.

Answer 7

Controlling, independent, snobby, cold, or arrogant girls are a huge turn-off.
I guess that when I go into a relationship, I already kind of know the person, and have made the choice to get to know them on a deeper level. I have never gone into a relationship (or attemted to) blindly. If the guy is really into you, then it won't matter how you act. Just be yourself.

Answer 8

expectations , always talking abt family and abt how much baseball bores you

i believe that a man actually looks out for a buddy kind of a partner
a person who wont teach him manners when he farts out loud or burps loudly after drinking beer
woman say that men like to lead the way while it is just the other way round
so let the best woman win

Answer 9

Pushing for a committment way too early. Jealousy. Lack of trust. Wacko temper.

Answer 10

i like a girl that can keep a convosation going and wont mind what ever the guys says and have a sense of humour....always smiles and laughs and cute and cuddly...lovable...very nice and easy to be with and gives a feeling that ur very comfortable when ur around her.....anyway u seem to be a very nice girl....r u cute too?