i've been talking to this guy for a year now and dating for 2 months in that year. now recently we became bf/gf. this past weekdn we were making out and we ended up on bed. he had only his boxers on and i had everything from the top off ONLY-nothing else. we ended up doing this saturday night and sunday night and both those days I had my pants on and told him i was not going to go there with him and he respected that. he felt my chest and i felt his bottom part. he's 26 and im 27. did i do the right thing? something tells me i did and the other part says i didnt. will guys ever respect me for doing things? will he think im easy even though he was the first guy i've done this with? help, i need advice on what i did. did i lose respect? dignity? the day after he said he was sorry for taking it far but he loved me regardless and still feels like marrying me in the future. he promised not to do what he did until we marry. am i less of a woman for doing what i did?
2007-03-18 19:55:01 · 16 answers · asked by amy_s03 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
the only thing you're doing wrong is describing every detail of your love life on the internet
2007-03-18 19:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did just fine and should have no guilt whatsoever.
And, kudos to your boyfriend for having such self-control that he didn't try and force himself on you.
To go that far though and not want to give in and go to the next step isn't easy, in fact it's pretty "hard" (ok, sorry...pun intended)....
how your guy resisted even asking you or trying to convince you to "give him relief", I'll never know.
I can almost promise you this though...the next time you two go that far the pants are going to come off and it won't be so easy to resist the temptation of having intercourse.
Advice, get yourself some condoms or make sure your b/f has them handy...you're gonna need them.
2007-03-19 03:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by GeneL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait.. your asking us as a 27 year old women.. if its ok for a guy to touch your breast? and if that makes you easy? Um.. do you know how many people most 27 year old women have had sex with? Its fine. Your beliefs are your beliefs.. so if that was too much for you. Dont do it again. But compared to society- your fine!
2007-03-19 09:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by la428282 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me commend you for being a 27 year old virgin. Do not assume you are easy for what you did. What you did is natural between men and women. I think it is great that you are saving yourself for your future husband.
2007-03-19 03:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by dave 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if you had done anything right or wrong and you'll get the answer. If you find yourself uneasy when you think about the incident, you have done wrong. If you smile or feel good, you have done right.
2007-03-19 03:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Subhendu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-03-19 03:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by firetdriver_99 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're too worried about the act. If you love each other, don't worry about going all the way, have fun.
2007-03-19 06:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that does not make you less of a woman . .he seems like a keeper. . . really sweet thats good u found someone 2 make you happy!! just do what feels right . . . don't follow your head tho. . . follow your heart & guard it verry well too.
2007-03-19 02:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can decide what is right for your and your body and should not have to apologise for it. If he didn't treat you with respect that would be a reflection on him, not on you.
2007-03-19 09:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by scatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are above normal.. you are old enough to know what you want or dont want, so be careful of the situation yopu let yourself get in to. because sooner or later, you wont have your panties on..it is a natural thing to want.. but you are doing as you please.. just be very careful next time.
2007-03-19 03:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋