i used to love dis girl secretly. for some reasons i had to hook her up with my best mate. because she was a friend and she told me she liked my best mate. i thought i could handle the consequences of it. but I'm absolutely rubbish at handling situations. i ended up losing friendship with both of 'em. i went through a terrible time. but i think i have got over her. now..i want to get back the friendship i once had. tomorrow's her birthday. i told her to have lunch with me tomorrow. she agreed because she wants to b friend with me as well. she is going to bring her boyfriend( was my best mate). now my question is.how m i going to act in front her? what do i talk about? and what do i buy for her? please help.....
2007-03-18 19:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by fade_as_snowflake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well as friends just act like you did before you liked her. . .hardly notice her as more then a friend. . . buy her something that makes the statement of "i miss your friendship" maybe a friendship ring or necklace?
2007-03-18 19:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not ought to do some thing. He replaced into very honest and informed he would not needs any relationship. Love is a few thing that you do not beg for. The more beneficial you chase him the more beneficial away he receives. get alongside with different acquaintances instead. at the same time as a guy like a woman or verse virse he take her out and do not provide any such vast volume of excuses.
2016-12-02 05:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you really mean "What can I give her as a gift that will knock her socks off, without her boyfriend (your mate) figuring out that you still like her as more than a friend?" Well, how about a charm bracelet with one charm that will remind her of you everytime she looks at it! Maybe an ankle bracelet since summer is coming she'll wear it alot. Good Luck!!
2007-03-18 20:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by lilrunaway45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst forget what had happened in the past,start talking as old buddiesas if nthing had happened (dnt act too much sometimes things turn upside down).Give her a card tht say abt friendship nd buy her some flowers tht shows or means she is stilla good friend to u.(dnt giv red roses or something like tht they send another meaning.i hope u konw)Anyhow dnt get tensed try to be cool.Gud luck
2007-03-18 19:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by lekha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a nice box of chocolates, or a nice plant. Leave her alone, this is you BEST MATE'S girlfriend. You should have taken your chance before you introduced them. Be glad that they are spending time with you again.
2007-03-18 20:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop overthinking this.
Why don't you just relax and have a good time? Buy her something you think she'd like. Talk about the news. Talk about sports. Talk about good times you've had in the past. Talk about her job. Talk about whatever! Just enjoy the time you have and stop pressuring yourself.
2007-03-18 19:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BUY her something non romantic. GEt her a nice pen or some chocolates.-- TALK about GENERAL things like what has she been doing? AND hows her family? and her mother ? and her father. TELL isnt the weather strange?
2007-03-18 19:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WUZ UP MAN.. BY READING YOUR TEXT I CAN TELL THAT YOU STILL HAVE AN ISSUE, WITH THIS SOME OF US NEED MORE TIME THAN OTHERS TO HEEL, SEARCH DEEP INTO YOUR EMOTIONS AND YOU'LL SEE THAT YOUR NOT READY, BUT THE DATE IS COMING/GET TOGETHER, IS HERE JUST FACE THE MUSIC, BIT YOUR TONGUE, BE STRONG SHOW MATURITY, JUST LIKE THEM ITS LOOKS LIKE THEY WOULD LIKE TO HAVE YOU BACK AS THEIR TRUE FRIEND, THEY MOVED ON THEY FORGAVE ITS ON YOU NOW!!!!
2007-03-18 20:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by gonzalo c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u do not buy anything, this is out of your hands, the cooler u are about it the better, do not be friends with her, show her u want her bad
2007-03-18 19:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by vincent vega 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you wat to do, is not to ahow any anger. try to
be a good sport. It won't be easy,but if you want her back,
you have to show her your a better man . As far as a present
is concerned, make it simple but nice. You do not want to buy
hwe back, you have to make her want to come back
2007-03-18 20:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by KOOZE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋