aighty im 24 and my gf is 35...she has 3 kids...i don't have any...she is divorced and i never been married...how does this relationship sound to u?? odd or normal??
2007-03-18 18:38:07 · 16 answers · asked by mateasoul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What ever floats your boat. If you two can make it work then more power to you. Good luck
2007-03-18 18:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound odd at all. How many times have you come across a relationship where the man is 10, 20, even 30 or more years older than her. We as a society have come to accept this behavior because men like to have younger women around.
If you feel that you have a strong relationship with this woman, and you are not just doing it for sexual reasons I don't see it as a problem. If you were in this relationship for all the worng reasons, and you are unable to get along with her children, then you might want to move on. If you are mature enough to accept the responsibility to care for a woman AND her children, then who cares how much older she is than you.
2007-03-18 18:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by miranti2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are a little young, but life could have dealt you a hard hand,resulting in faster maturity. Sit back and think about this..she has three kids, that's permanent. Having three kids pretty much means you are stuck at the house. If you have feelings for her, and are ready to be a father figure to three children than so be it. Love is amazing, just think is all I can give for advice.
2007-03-18 18:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dalmatica Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The situation doesn't matter, the question you should ask yourself is if the both of you are compatible, and get along.!!!!!! Age doesn't matter! To me, 10 years difference isn't all that much, anyway! Sometimes someone older or younger can bring that "Spark" into a relationship and both of you can learn alot!
I'm happy for you! Build relationships with her kids, you WON'T regret it! Children are special!
2007-03-18 18:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is workable as long as you are sure you want to handle the package deal she brings. She is a mom first and your girlfriend second. If you can deal with that, it should be fine. The age difference is really not a big deal once you get out of your teens and well into your 20s.
2007-03-18 18:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by pixieri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I examine the qudstion bexfore clicking on it i became goung to jot down: "its no longer incorrect yet i wouldnt say splendid. as long as they dont do something". I then examine the full tale. that's one hundred% incorrect, shes youthful and vulnerable. It looks like he purely needs her for intercourse and is telling her that he loves her to get into her panties. i think of you could tell an person, your mum in keeping with risk or a conventional instructor you could refer to. something heavily desires to be accomplished approximately this. If she loses her virginity at this age then she'll be apologetic approximately it while she meets 'the single' and her v card has already been performed. attempt to stop her from assembly up with him yet while that fails and you havent controlled to tell an person then refuse to bypass away her side on an analogous time as he's there. save your telephone clise in case of an emergency. Im sorry its got here approximately to your buddy, and regrettably it occurs to a extensive element of teen ladies yet its usually too previous due. good good fortune! desire ive helped! :) xxx
2016-12-15 03:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number if you make each other happy then you should not care about age or what anyone else thinks. As long as you are both happy that is all that matters.
2007-03-18 18:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is only a number, doesn't matter how old you are as long as the attraction is there and you get along with her kids.
2007-03-18 18:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Toni B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both consenting adults, there is no problem as far as I can see.Don't forget if it is a serious relationship that her children are a factor in it too and your relationship will affect them as well ;)
2007-03-18 18:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, truthfully a little wired, just think of it, when you were born, she was 11, when you were 2, she was 13 and could babysit you, shes would b more of a mom then a wife
2007-03-18 18:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by aggiegrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋