I went to visit a friend of my cousin in Colorado and we had a blast. I live in New York and I am going out to see her again but I haven't told her that I want a relationship with her. She is straight and I don'tk now how to. We hit it off well and I just want a relationship with her. She is interested in my cousin but he has told her that I like her but she doesn't know I know. She has been making comments to him and her boyfriend what would they do if she became a lesbian...I don't know if this is because of me or not. I don't want to freak her out but I want to go out there next month and treat her like she deserves to be treated. I want this so bad but I don't know how to make it happen. She makes has been telling my cousin that she needs to find me a man but I am not sure if she is saying that because she knows I like her nor not. What should I do. She is an amazing woman and I really like her??
2007-03-18 18:34:59 · 12 answers · asked by JUST ASK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really is straight, what's your options? Give up.
2007-03-18 18:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I want to have a lesbian encounter too. I've never done anything like this, but I do want to try. :)
I'm so small (tiny if you will) though, so I don't know. what do lesbian women want? I'm only 5'3" and 105lbs, blond, green eyes and wear a size 0. I'm not much in size. Would this be ok? Or are gay women looking for more meat on a girl? Men like me.
2007-03-18 18:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by ConfewZd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with her about your feelings. But, be prepared for either answer. Just tell her in a way that doesn't make her uncomfortable. If she doesn't reciprocate the feelings you have for her, tell her it's understandable and would still like a friendship with her. Also, tell her, if she doesn't feel the same way, that is, that you will never broach the subject again unless she starts a dialogue about it. Good luck. :)
2007-03-18 18:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by VHagerty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 01:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by archuletta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make her feel pressured!!
Outside of that, hope that she's in a mood to experiment. There's a lot of luck involved for you in that.
Just hope she's in the mood to be open-minded and curious.
2007-03-18 20:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her make the move or you will scare her. What if she is straight, you just scared off your friend... Dont move to fast and good luck...
2007-03-18 18:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by Megan Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should say that you like her and want to have a relationship with her. if she doesn't want it too bad you cant force someone to like you
2007-03-18 18:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. Go and find someone of your kind.
2007-03-18 18:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to convert?
2007-03-18 18:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, suggest a threesome with her and a guy.
2007-03-18 18:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋