she told me that she doesn't think i actually do and that she just can't trust guys but that she feels like she may eventually be able to trust me completely and that i make her feel really amazing but she just doesn't feel that way right now. should i feel stupid? is she gonna break up with me b/c she thinks it's weird?
2007-03-18 18:29:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No she isn't going to break up with you and you shouldn't feel stupid. You were right for letting her know how you feel, never hold back your feelings. By her saying that she will eventually be able to trust you means that she is sticking with you. A lot of guys say that they love someone, but they may have been conditioned to say it because of something that happened. I feel that words are just words and unless there is some type of action to back it up it doesn't really mean much to me. You said that you think that you may love her, well if you truly feel that way, show her! When she sees that your serious, she will be able to start trusting you. Showing someone that you love them isn't just about buying them gifts and what not, its about being there for them when they need support. Continue to be a loving, caring, supporting, and faithful BF and you will win over her love and trust! Good Luck.
2007-03-18 18:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by jmo2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she'll break up with you. She was probably hurt by a lot of guys in the past, and has some trust issues obviously, but her being open and honest about it is a really good sign. Just be there for her and show her that you really DO love her, and above all, don't do anything to try and hurt her. Good luck!
2007-03-19 01:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's sweet that you think you might love her, and it's great that you told her.
She's also right in wanting to take her time to decide. Love is a powerful emotion. Give her the time she needs. Continue on like you used to. And make sure she can trust you because it sounds like that's really important to her.
You sound like a really nice guy with a great girlfriend, so don't worry cause everything will work out!
2007-03-19 01:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by unoulvme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u shouldnt feel stupid and i doubt she is gonna break up with u just cause u think u might be in love, just give it some time and dont push her at all, so many ppl get hurt these days and the scars take a while to heal so just be patient with her
2007-03-19 01:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's had a major hurt in her life and is not ready to fully let herself fall in love. Be thankful that you two can communicte about it Don't feel wierd, you were honost. If everything else is going good don't focus on those three words. I would only have a problem with it if it went on over a year. She should feel secure with you by then.
2007-03-19 01:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by ohbrother 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll be fine. Girls just take longer to trust and love than guys. Also if she can't trust then there could be a reason from her past, which you two might have to overcome together.
2007-03-19 01:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by StephS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her and treat each other with respect. Eventually more trust will occur and it will be even better. Remember that actions always speak louder than words.
2007-03-19 01:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient and have trust in what she feels.slowly she may come to you.the more u give her space the more eventually he gets closer to you..woman's emotion always theres up and down..bear with it
2007-03-19 01:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by bumbleebee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel stupid! It's just as hard to get good news as it is to get bad news. Let her have time to digest what you told her!
2007-03-19 01:36:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. calm down, she'll come around you definetly should not feel stupid, its good that you shared your feelings with her and that will make it easier for her to share her feelings with you. good luck :)
2007-03-19 01:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by ~Val~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋