2007-03-18 18:22:00 · 13 answers · asked by nutdish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ok as long as they have similar values and maturity levels. When I was 21, I was dating a 37 year old. The age difference wasn't a big deal to us, but it didn't work out because he was in a hurry to settle down and have a family and I wanted to wait until I was done with college.
Just be careful & remember, it's what makes you and your significant other happy, not what other people have to say! Good luck!!
2007-03-18 18:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by KC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Although it depends on the age difference, for example if a 13 year old dated a 20 year old then that would probably be a big problem. But if a 21 year old dated a 27 year old then that's fine. The biggest issue is maturity. There is no way a kid who is only 13 years old is mature enough for a 20 year old, however a 21 year old and a 27 year old are both adults and are probably (hopefully) mature enough to deal with the age difference.
2007-03-18 18:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting how many perverts there are out there. They immediately think that just because a question is about someone dating someone older they assume the girl is underage. It could be just as easily about a 30yo dating a 60yo? And to answer your question, that's entirely between the 2 of you, don't let other people get in the way. Parents, friends, co-workers, can all interfere and make life hard. Just follow your heart and tell the rest to **** off. its your life.
2007-03-18 19:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether it's legal or not. If someone over 18 is having sex with someone younger than 17, depending on the state, it can be illegal and land you in jail. If you're both old enough to say yes, then that's an improvement. However, I'd be asking why the older person is seeing someone who's younger -- can't they get someone their own age?
2007-03-18 18:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you live in the States - apparently over there in kindergarten land if you're sixteen and someone has sex with you and they're alot older - over 21 that's breaking the law - someone should have told them in India that they're having babies at 14. What a ridiculous country the US is! As far as I'm concerned you're over the legal age for consent or you're not - all this degrees of age difference is absolute twaddle as far as I'm concerned, but then what do you expect of a country that felt Tommy Cooper was getting his magic tricks wrong because he was negligent - talk about regression!
2007-03-18 18:26:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sure is , AS long as you are two consenting adults.
Have at her and have good time. All the more for you.
But if one is under age, no can do my friend!
Then the only relationship your going to have is at the Crow Bar Hotel. Sex not included.
2007-03-18 18:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think it is i have always gone for older guys i like being in a mature relationship then an immature realtionship i think dating older people is a good move they seem to be more open and understanding , thats what i have found in my realtionships and i have never been more happier now i have found my guy who is 3 years older then me.. just be safe and legal =)
2007-03-18 18:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both ovr 18, yes. It usually doesn't work out if the difference is more than 6-10 years...
2007-03-18 18:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by John L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its better if you add some more details about your question... Yes its OK.. but be careful.. Its okay having a relationship with older than you but you must think about the consequences.. good luck
2007-03-18 18:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with the relationship-YES.
2007-03-18 18:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋