I met this guy awhile back when I was working at the hospital. He was a pharmaceutical rep so he'd stop by the office of where I worked & would always say hi, smile & flirt w/me. Well I had a bf at the time so I didn't pursue anything although my friend gave me his business card (just in case lol) About 3 months later I got a job somewhere & then eventually broke up w/my bf. The other day I was going through my business cards of who I can network w/since I'm in the insurance biz now & I came across his card. So I decided to email him & he emailed me back w/a nice email & sorta flirty. I had been dropping hints & he told me he wants to do lunch w/me sometime so he can talk w/me about insurance since he used to be in the business. Well, I thought the whole time he was single, but when he invited me to his bday party tomorrow night, he told me that he'd have to tell his wife to stay home! I had seen his homepage & it said married, but I thought it was a joke, & because he flirts w/me.
2007-03-18 18:10:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He tells me how cute I am, & especially dropping that line about leaving his wife at home if I come. I wrote him back saying it might be a lil strange if I go, but I'm wondering if I should go or not go? I want to go because we're new found friends again, but would it be a lil awkward for me to go? I wouldn't know anyone else there besides him, so hmm, what to do? What is he thinking of me?
2007-03-18 18:13:06 · update #1
No you should walk away.
2007-03-18 18:16:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a guy to START any kind of relationship with.
Never get romantically involved with a married person unless you're SURE the spouse knows and is OK with it.
2007-03-19 03:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋