where iz the line between loyalty thru thik n thin, or dishonoring oneself by not leaving?

Question

i am desperately trying to figure me out. my boyfriend was in a life threatening,LIFE CHANGING car wreck. it has changed his spirit. its almost as if he is hollow..like some part of him died in that wreck. a loved and mutual girl-friend was in wreck with him, as well as another friend. our best girlfriend was injured to deaths door..coma for 3months,numerous surgeries from head to toe..LITERALLY. she is awake now..still in therapy realizing how much her life has changed. her memory was about a 2year old. i sat at the hosp every day for 3mo.-6hours a day with her. at first with zero response then slowly with baby steps she progressed. she iz about teenagerish now, but this was a girl that lived life in the ****** fast lane 4 sure. i love my guy and have known him for 11 years. he has changed. become very insensitive. even cruel at times. my heart pains immensely. my soul iz confused. does one disrespect oneself by staying, or iz this the tests that life gives, thru thick n thin til deth

Answer 1

,My whole hart is with you.The situation is very sad.Some times life play games with people and those are not very nice ,period.You're doing the right thing.Love shows the best in you.Time might be the answer to this fella condition ,you must have patience.Take the problem day by day.Keep your normal life.Someone from some place,will give you the answer.Don't get up.You're awesome.Good luck.
Vinny