How can you tell if someone is a stalker or dangerous just by talking to them?

Question

I've been e-mailing this guy for 8months now. And recently I gave him my cell number. And we've only talked 4 times. And him and I are daiting and he said to me "becareful about who you meet on the internet" "Don't give people your address cause you never know". My ex bf kept giving me possibilities about him like he could be a stalker or a petafile or something.

I met him on yahoo answers.

Answer 1

Not every guy online ,is out to get anyone. Your xbf, is looking out for his own interest, it sounds like to me.
Why would he tell you different?
Your xbf. wil tell you what he wants you to believe. not what you want to know.
Of course, he doesn't want anyone to have your phone number, or address. because he's afraid you might find someone better then him.
He knows you will litsen to him. because he knows you. And he knows, you will believe what he says.

Answer 2

i do not support online relationships/friendships. i think they're dangerous, no matter how safe you think this guy is. did you know, there are sites where people can track you down just with your cell phone number? your EXACT location?

8 months is a long time, and you may think "why would he go on with this for so long, to stalk me, then?" they want your full trust, and stalkers may be at any means to find you, no matter how long it takes. stop talking to this guy. make better relationships with people in person.

how could you be so sure he's not feeding you lies? what gives you reason to believe he's not making up all this crap? a stalker will give you what you want to hear and lure you in. it's not like he's going to be saying "oh, i`m going to stalk you once i find out your definite location." or "i`ve been to jail for stalking someone already."

stop talking to the guy. cut off connections with him. it'd even be better if you get a new phone number. change your e-mail. and meet other people in person. not on the internet

Answer 3

You listen to your ex, he could be right about this guy being a stalker so I suggest to change your no#. Does the stalker know where you live???

I think you may need to find somewhere else to live as well. It is dangerous meeting someone from the net.

I think you should stop seeing the guy.If he starts asking you questiongs like why and were meant to be together and what not ****** leave and run for your life. Get the police involved.

Answer 4

My sketch radar is going off the hook. You're dating someone you haven't ever met after only four phone calls. How old are you? If you're worried about pedophiles and you're under 18, you have just cause, you most likely found one.

What is scary about stalkers and sexual predators is that for the most part, they are very intriguing, able to charm you easily, and are not people that off the bat would cause you to take alarm. That's why people are always surprised by stalkers, they aren't the ones you suspect.

My honest advise. Take caution. Watch a single episode of Dateline to Catch a Predator, and if you are under 18 to seriously reconsider any involvement with this person.

Answer 5

Are you really that dumb? Do you not watch the news? How old are you? That is really a dumb thing to do, giving out personal information to a stranger on the internet. You need to educate yourself on stuff like before you meet up with the wrong person!

Answer 6

If he's breathing heavy as he clutches desperately at a hooded cap, squeezing it into a ball, panting as he says the following words: "DIE B***H DIE, I"M GOING TO TRACK AND KILL YOU." That's a pretty good sign.

Answer 7

they way they talk if they say thing that bother you like sexually there dangerous if they ask you some thing like what are you wear get the f*ck away they are stackers