This might sound foolish but please bare w. me. I was w. my boyfriend for 6yrs(best friends for10yrs )we took a break & have been on & off since July. This summer, we both had beach houses in jersey shore(we live in NY). Basically, he started talkin to an immature 16yr old girl (Tommy is 21) & she got obsessive,in which he started to ignore her. Me & her came in contact 1day& thenshe started to stalk me. I became a threat to her, & she tried to turn him against me.(16yr old games)We came home he got rid of her.We started to talk. Out of no where, she came back. Started to call me telling me to leave him alone She had him call me. She is white trash& very immature.I am shocked & so hurt bc he would never deal w.such nonsense.He is my best friend & i love him to death.I do hate him for this but I feel sh ealso came in & took himaway fromme I dont know what 2 do. I want to get him back & away from her.Not to sound cocky but i was a great GF &need him 2see this&come cryin bak-PLEASE HELP!
2007-03-18 16:00:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want ANY man to come crying back to you??? That's just lame. You want a man who stands up for youa nd says "Baby, I want you because you are the one for me!!!" Not because you pressure him into coming back to you with his tail between his balls.
2007-03-18 16:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by VillageGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude sounds very messed up - messed up peeps are naturally attracted to OTHER messed up peeps - why? Cos it feels "comfortable", known, familiar. Obviously you two matured differently - dude is still back at 16 - I'm unclear as to WHY this guy is so attractive to you - he has problems that are NOT going to magically disappear if he gets back with you - you also have "control" issues - you need to be in control - no mature responsible dude likes to be "controlled"...
2007-03-18 23:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what if he does sumthin like this for a young girl who dont know what she wants in life you have to make him realize what he had was good but u gotta watch people change they dont stay the same forever so i say the best thing to do is look for some one who will make you feel even better becuase if he was da right one 4 u he wouldnt have done what he did trust me
2007-03-18 23:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by charles_collins72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order against her and in some states they have anti-stalking laws. C if your state does and have her thrown in jail. It won't help with your relationship with your boyfriend but it will sure send a message.
2007-03-18 23:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sean P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not whant him back for what he is doing to you ,this happend to me one and i decided to be the bigger person and walk away i know how you feel right know be when its over and you look back on it you will know you made the right choice. and thats just imiture for a 21 year old guy to do that you know what boys are in for.
2007-03-18 23:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by mnalovesjesse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU STUPID, THIS MAN IS A CHILD MOLESTER AND SHOULD BE IN PRISON. FOR YOU TO WANT A LIFE WITH SUCH A PERSON ONLY MAKES ME THINK YOU NEED HELP. CALL THE POLICE AND THE 16 YEAR OLD GIRLS PARENTS AND GET HIM IN TROUBLE AND THEN YOU WILL SEE HIM COME CRYING TO YOU AND BEGGING. THEN TURN HIM AWAY.
2007-03-18 23:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by wilber 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋