Firstly, they hide away all sharp implements
Then they talk twoddle for 30 minutes and give you bill for big bucks
Tell the old man to get a grip or ship out
2007-03-18 16:03:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Psychologist or psychiatrist?
There is a di difference.
Let's say that he is going to a psychiatrist, which is what you posted.
These are doctors. Some are good and some are not.
Some want to quickly medicate and some will send your hubby to a psychologist or talk themselves.
Where did your hubby find this psychiatrist's info?
Yes, he will talk with ytour hubbby, but you can ask questions, also.
How long have you been treating ppl?
WHat is your speciality?
How do you feel about meds?
WHat is your policies about giving them, (when,)?
You need to know which kind of school of thought that he comes from.
For example: if he believes that depression is largely a disease that needs to be treated, then he will attach little responsibility to your hubby and medicate quickly.
If he is more of a behavioralist, he might want to try and change some of his behaviors which might also change some feelings.
FUrthermore, some mental health profs are more wholistic. THey will ask what is going on in many parts of your life and maybe even family which might contribute. They might want to p prescribe some herbal remedies.
These work, some say and others do not.
If he has been diag. with clinical depression and not bipolar or manic (you also said that he has mood swings which indicates bipolar), then, the doc will look at the recommendation and maybe put on meds.
But, meds are not the cure-all. He needs to talk as well and identify some errors in his thinking that discuss many areas and ways he can deal with them. Coping strategies are important. But, some psychiatrists do not do this and leave it for the psychologists o MSW.
Hospitalization is when the person is a danger to himself or others.
If your hubby is a danger to himself or others, then, he can be committed.
But, if he is not, then he will not be.
There are day programs for severely depressed individuals which help.
There are groups that are run by trained staff (psychologists or msw)
and you can find a support group as well for family dealing with depressed fam members.
THis does not just effect your hubby, it effects the entire family.
And, a change will efect everyone also.
Even though it is embarrassing, talk to ppl.
Find out who is good and who is not.
Find out what questions to ask.
Find out how to measure progress and how to determine which is the reason, if there is not progress.
No need to waste your money.
If you are not well informed, you might be.
STart your research.
Ask your hubby how much he wants you to say and what "HE" hopes to get out of this meeting.
Even if you do get meds, they won't work overnight.
So, a quick fix is not a real expectation.
Good luck!
Be blessed.
2007-03-18 16:32:38
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answered by JAN W 3
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On one's first visit to a therapist or psychiatrist the following questions are usually asked:
Name
Age
Name and info on next of kin
Married?
Children? How many? What ages?
Siblings? How many? What ages?
Parents? Still living?
Job? Where? Doing what?
"How do you think that we can help you?"
They will be writing all of this down. Sometimes they actually ask you if you know what the date is--even the year. I've heard someone say they were asked who the Pres. of the US was.
The therapist, who you said he is seeing tomorrow, will mostly be collecting information--he or she cannot prescribe medication--only a psychiatrist (or MD of any kind) can prescribe. If the therapist feels that your husband needs immediate medication, he or she will know who to call to get enough prescribed until your husband's doctor appointment.
Everyone is scared--but there is really nothing to be afraid of. No one in the mental health field is about to harm you--they are there to help in the best way they can.
Don't worry, and tell your husband the same. Everything will be okay--he is taking his first step toward recovery. That's an accomplishment to be proud of.
2007-03-18 18:00:16
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answered by Holiday Magic 7
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He will talk about how he is feeling, and the psychiatrist's role is to find out which pattern of depression this fits into, and what the best way to deal with it is. There are lots of kinds of depression, some won't change with drugs and will only resolve with therapy, some can only improve with drugs and respond brilliantly, some will improve on their own, some will not change.
Don't be afraid if he needs medication - certain forms of depression limit the brain's pathways and force the person into certain types of thinking, preventing them from acting the way they usually do. What medication does is open up the repressed pathways and allow the person to think the way he normally does. The way to tell whether or not the medication is appropriate is whether he starts behaving the way he used to.
Good luck, hope it goes well.
2007-03-18 16:45:17
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answered by Testaco 3
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Relax, there is absolutely nothing to get worked upon as a psychiatrist is no monster as some folks tend to think.
The first session will be an interactive session where initially the doctor with his professional knowledge shall try to bring the patient to a stage of mental relaxation & then look to seek some answers to the reasons for depression. Drugs may be prescribed if found necessary.
I'm sure that after a few sessions your hubby shall be fine( don't get worked up if it takes a longer time).
Best of Luck. God Bless.
2007-03-18 16:21:50
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answered by pinu 4
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singapore is unlike in US where they feed you with lots of drug. the mood swing is because he is going through a phase. Perhaps a phase where things are not working out for him in everything that he does, or the fact that his career is not moving or physical.
At the psychiatrist, it is very expensive as they charges about S$300 per hour depending on how good they are.
the first session is getting him to talk about what is bothering him and then try to establish the area that make him tick.
Before you can confirmed that he is having moodswing, can you please confirmed that he is not under any form of medication as some medicine do cause that.
It is good that you are working with him through this theraphy. remember that now is not a session of telling him that he is wrong for this is the last thing he wants to hear and also the fastest him to chase him away to the nearest mountain in tibet.
Let him feel comfortable with himself, his house, make him feel welcome, make his favourite food, and then observe. in fact, based on what that you are going through, it would be difficult for me to advise you as i need more info.
also in fact, i think you could be the better psychitrist than the one that you are paying. men are like onions, when there is something bothering them, they will closed up and unlike woman whom would complaint to the whole world they will hold in themselves until they becomes dsyfunctional.
men goes through this is usually something deeper. and the most important is let him feel ease, do not pressure him to tell you. your job is just standing beside him, be it for 3 months or 6 months and then eventually he will work out himself and then will really appreciate you.
be patient
2007-03-18 23:26:44
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answered by Matchstick 2
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2016-10-01 03:42:24
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answered by ? 4
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they will want to talk to you to
your husband will probably need to be hospitalized
so the Dr can figure out exactly what is wrong so he
can give your hubby the proper meds remember that
whatever happens you gotta show him you love him and are there to support him success will come with time
2007-03-18 16:06:38
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answered by caffsans 7
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They'll ask you to talk out the situation and stuff and discuss your emotions and talk about treatment.
2007-03-18 16:07:00
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answered by Anonymous
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expect your husband to want to talk afterwards
2007-03-18 16:03:14
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answered by invisiblekisses2000 2
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